Cried for the first time in so long. Found out my cousin passed away today. I thought I couldn’t cry anymore but this news just unlocked a flood of emotions. I don’t even know what to do with the rest of my night.

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I’m very sorry OP. Sending virtual hugs, feel better.

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I am sorry for your loss.

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I found out my cousin ( probably one of the closest people in the world to me ) is in renal failure at 39 after having a stroke at 37 that he got while at a job I got him across country. I found out as soon as I landed cancelled all my meetings except two, don’t think I stopped crying the entire day. I keep wavering between crying and wanting to punch the wall. I am so sorry for your loss

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I’m truly sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you. Some days will be bearable and others feel dark as hell. That is with all tragedies we endure in this life I guess. I hope you’re having one of the better days today.

OP and D1, sorry for your pain/loss. I hope you find the strength to power through this. Sending virtual hugs and best wishes!

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Sending our love OP. Please take care of yourself and hoping you feel better soon.

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I’m so sorry, OP and D1! Sending lots of hope for healing your way. The bowl is always here for you if you need to vent/share.

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Sending you virtual hugs OP, my condolences.

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Hugs to you OP and D1. May memories bring you both comfort. 💔

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I am so sorry for your loss, OP. Sending love and light your way.

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I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ I lost my cousin earlier this summer and it was really hard. I suggest taking time off and doing something that would remember him/her

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Thank you all. I’m processing in my own way. Reading these responses has really touched me.

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