Cuffing season is around the corner…who is looking for a consistent companion in the Philly or DMV area? I’m a S/B/F late 30s looking for cis men only. 🛝💌⛷

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Good luck. You gon need it looking for cis men only. Lol


Really?? Geez

Shoot your shot sis! You should post in the DC bowl too.


What does S/B/F stand for?

Single black female

What does cis stand for?

Thank you

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