Currently talking to two divorcees- one was left last year and one did the leaving. (Contd...)

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A bit presumptuous of you to assume sex AND sexual orientation, P1

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Neutralize the sex and orientation it still makes sense 😂

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Savage P1

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The one that was left seems more interested and inclined for a serious relationship. The one that did the leaving seems less ready to settle down anytime soon but the chemistry is much stronger. I want a serious relationship- but chemistry is hard to turn away from. What to do?!

Op- agree with your assessment on P1, but he does have a point. It depends on what you are looking for. So search within yourself. You have two great options here and no one but you can answer what you are looking for this exact moment and/or in long term.

How long were both of them been divorced?

Drill the chemist and take contact info for the long-timer ... guarantee you'll reach out in 3 months and she will be alone.

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