Cute relationship story - I'm a woman who met my fiance in college but we were both closeted at the time, and it was a small religious school. Fast forward to last year, she ends up getting hired at the same company as me and there are a few other LGBT folks there who are very well respected/have high level jobs/very open about their personal lives. We are in different departments so it wasn't inappropriate for us to get together, and we felt safer. We got engaged yesterday.

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

I love my parents but they squabble all the time. My mom nags and my dad gets angry. Then she talks back. If I say something, they yell at me. I am not looking forward to the holidays. I wish desi parents wouldnt do this.

My boyfriend has a list of rules to follow as life guidance. I recently disagree with one of them and suggested that it could lead to miscommunication. He claimed that I shouldn’t be insinuating that there’ll be a miscommunication until there’s one (there was one in my opinion but he didn’t realize) and I’m reading things too much. Did I do something wrong here? I didn’t mean to be judgmental but just want to tell him things I observed.

If you are a couple with no kids, how do you go about finding friends in the area? I struggle so much :( most of my close friends are now scattered across the country and I feel like we have no one close to us anymore. I don’t even know how we’d go about making new friends anymore!

We just met a wonderful kitten while camping in East Idaho. We’re flying back to Bay Area tonight and thinking if we should leave him here or drop him off at a local shelter or take him with us and find him home in the Bay. What should we do?
(My gf and I already have 3 cats between us and so we won’t be able to adopt this one unfortunately)

An Indian working as a consultant in US, going thru a bad phase in personal and professional life. on the verge of divorce(1 yr of marriage) and can’t coup up the pressure of work. Any suggestion or feedback will help!

Anyone thinking about having a baby with a surrogate even being single in late 30s and a busy consultant?

fuck work. who wants to talk about sisterwives 👀

My son wants to study the same as me, he is only 12 years old, but he has an immense love for biology. In spite of how flattered I feel I can't stop thinking how difficult it is to find a stable job in this profession, is it time to talk about it, or do I wait for a little longer?

I found some extremely provocative and inappropriate TikTok’s of my cousin’s kid today (8 years old). I’m genuinely concerned. My first instinct was to call my cousin (whom I’m close with, like a sis) and tell her but after giving it some time, I’m on the fence. About a year ago, I found inappropriate TikTok’s of a close friend’s kid and told my friend as soon as I found out. She sounded appreciative that I let her know but TBH, our relationship hasn’t been the same and we rarely talk anymore.

All my closefriends are straight and from my college days. All of them are now married and/or have kids. I really don’t know where I fit in anymore as a single gay man.

*shows my mom the work i've been doing* *mom doesn't understand what i do* mom: i'm so proud of you!

Sometimes I hear stories of men who send money back to their parents, but when my dad was alive and I tried to give him money, he just got angry at me and they gave me double what I tried to give them. Why wouldn’t they take it from their daughter, but they’ll take it from their son?

Where is it easier to make some wlw friends, Austin, TX or Miami, FL? 👀

Anyone else hate when there is a change in the routine because you know how hard it is for your kids? Book fair, spring concert, spring concert rehearsal & picture day this week 😭

I’m an attractive 42 year old happily married mother of 4. I’m not drop dead gorgeous but a 8/10. Dads of my kids friends text me to invite my kids to activities and additional sport practices. I’m pretty naive and assume they’re doing it because they like my kids. I don’t want to send the wrong message by accepting. Are they interacting with me because of my kids or because I’m attractive? If I bring my kids to the functions am I sending a message that I’m interested in something else?

How difficult is it to be a single parent? (Soon to be one)

The person I’m seeing has been responding to my texts days later (only a recent development) and it’s making me anxious. They have been busy the past two weeks with PhD exams and their last message was them planning when they could see me again (in a really flirty way too), so logically I know the delay is not a sign of disinterest. But I have an anxious attachment style (if that’s not obvious) and my therapist is on leave right now, so I’m struggling. Do any of you have any advice?

Any expats here face pushback from your family for moving to a different country? They always try to shame me for moving so far away around the holidays...

I am 30 and my knees hurt!

Anyone working at Abbie willing to provide reference? Desperately need one

Would anyone be open to referring me into google or AWS for sales? Currently 2.5 YOE in SAAS and hardware sales.

I was in that group for 10+ years. Left in 2014. I can try to answer your question if you want

Any thoughts on changing fields of law? I have been actively networking and trying to get a position with an admiralty and maritime law firm. This is a niche field of law and it has been really difficult to break into (almost no job postings and everyone knows each other)any suggestions?

Larsen & Toubro Infotech

I keep reading that Shopify comp is very low. I’m applying to some lead & sr lead roles non-tech. What are the odds the tc is over $200k?

I’m way in over my head in my new job and I think I might be on the way out. What are some signs that you might be let go or transferred out?

I am SICK and TIRED of these damn *nix symbolic links 🤬

Best place in Dallas for ice cream?

Any partner looking for a mentee? I’m two years out of college and just started with a new consulting firm. Would appreciate any insight. Thanks!

Does anyone have a good way to utilize Microsoft Teams for tracking cases?

Looking to hire a full-time digital media buyer. Junior to mid level.

We’re a smaller, specialized agency focusing in performance marketing for corporate innovation and growth stage startups (e.g Cameo, DUDE Products, etc)

You’d work directly with our VP of Growth Marketing and CGO, lots of hands on training.

Ideally in Chicago - we only work in office once a week. Not opposed to out of state remote, but can chat through and see if it’s a mutually fit setup.

DM me or reply if interested!

Hey hi everyone hope everyone doing good..
May I know For program manager 2 position in MS sufficient to have 3.2 years of experience and non tech background and sound in PMO concept and execution?
Can you help with referrals as well and salary bracket as well..
Please do reply will be helpful ..
Thanks in advance

As far as claims adjusting, does working in the excess world make more money than working in primary?

Currently in ibanking as an associate and want to see if I can make the move to PE. Is the CAIA viewed favorably at all?

I was just sitting at an airport and saw the huge digital screens all around advertising things. It's a reminder that our industry has transformed the world in so many ways.

Any advice for anyone transitioning from a Data/Business Analyst role to a Customer Success Ops Analyst role? Much appreciated!

I keep reading that Shopify comp is very low. I’m applying to some lead & sr lead roles non-tech. What are the odds the tc is over $200k?

Any bytedancers here? Recently joined the firm and would be great to network!

Did anyone apply to Uber APM this cycle? How long did it take to hear back after you applied about the take-home project? TIA

Seeking advice on next move. In the next few weeks my current contract is up and won't be renewed.

I'm 3yrs into my career and looking to either move into something more technical or front facing. Think QA automation,or Cloud Engineering

I've also found a passion for Development and considering going the freelance route. (Shopify Development)

Any recommendations on which path I should head towards.

Also has anyone ever heard of a company called Careerist, are they good or a waste of time

Guys - A seasoned BSA looking for PO / PrM opportunities in asset and wealth management firms. Is anyone willing to refer me to their team or forward me to their acquaintances? Appreciate it.

Does anyone have experience in moving between FAANGs and seen their levels go up or down? Does the L levels calibrate across these companies?

Does anyone have recommendations to break into the tech field coming from an education background. Experience with 5 years of teaching.

Asking for a friend*

So for those that did get past the DoorDash take home… how long after submitting did they take to get back to you?

I have technical round for python next week for cgi. Please suggest for preparation. Thanks in advance

I need a job please. I have interviewed been passed over. All due to budget or worry I will not stay at the company for long. And it’s not because I m not a fit for the job. They want me but don’t want me to quite.

Imigration status is on almost every job application. Some people have told me that if you need a visa just put NO so that you are not automatically disqualified and then explain your situation later if you make it to the offer stage. Thoughts on this strategy? Haven't tried it, but thinking about using it.

What is the salary range of a Product Owner in Discover Financial Services at Chicago ? I am expecting an offer and would like to know the facts to better negotiate
Thanks in advance !!

Minimum number of YOE to qualify for L5 SA at AWS? Would love perspective from those internal and external

When looking for Associate Program Management roles, all the searches come up as Business Analyst. I’m a systems engineer with 3 YOE so would moving to a business analyst be a step in the wrong direction? I feel like I don’t have enough YOE for a program manager role.