Dating in NYC is really bringing me down. Considering leaving for greener pastures.

What other cities are better for dating and still have a decently fast pace of life/job market? Chicago? SF?

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Sydney! If a move abroad floats your boat!

I can vouch that Chicago is not a very good dating scene 😂 I feel like people use it as a stepping stone to get to places like NYC, SF, Austin

I came to NYC from the Boston area (granted, that was not long before COVID, so…grain of salt). Boston and the surrounding area felt a lot easier to at least meet up for a first date, which for me was a definite plus.

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