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Dealing with pregnancy brain currently, which is probably my least favorite pregnancy symptom. Anyone have tips for working around it? Does it get better after baby arrives?

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It turns into mom brain! I had major fog until about 6-7 mos pp. Started to feel more myself soon after that but your brain is not the same - now you’ve got different priorities and are juggling a lot more.

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Yes - I quit around 8 mos and definitely noticed the biggest change once I weaned.

Lol no

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Tbh mine was worse until about 7-8 months pp. The most stressful part for me is I was not prepared and I didn’t know it was a thing. For me, it stopped almost immediately when I stopped pumping so I think it was a hormone thing.

I say that not to scare you, but to let you know your not alone and it does get better. 💙

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I too am struggling with pregnancy brain. I will sip on a small latte sometimes to help.

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Haha I couldn’t think of basic words while I was pregnant. I think I made sure to add an extra layer of proofreading and running things by partners for a double check while I was pregs and when I returned to work.

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No tips but come to say I feel the same. I don’t feel like my normal work self and it’s been hard to adjust.

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