Deleted my dating apps and feel more content (not constantly checking for new matches/messages) but the lurking feeling that I’m shooting myself in the foot for not being more proactive about dating is taking its place 😂

Also has anyone watched the Ultimatum on Netflix? Just starting it!

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I can only do one app at a time and I usually use hinge because bumble times out and I miss matches. Tbh I want to focus on me, my puppy, my friends, my job and just stop dating but I definitely worry I’ll miss finding my person if I get off the apps all together

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Attorney1, in your boat and honestly I have just told myself that my person will teleport into my living room. The ROI on dating is zero. It's not productive or fruitful and because I have no deadline so I will meet people if I meet people 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’ve limited myself to one dating app. Being proactive about dating is tough bc it take two to tango. You could be as proactive as you want but if you aren’t getting matches you want - then it falls flat.

PS - buckle in for the ultimatum, gon be a wild ride

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In the past I kinda wondered if my location was the reason I wasn’t finding my type of person. But I also likely won’t move in the immediate future so I can’t test that theory. However I do lowkey wonder if I’m the problem 🤷🏻‍♀️

Oh the episodes get so much worse…that show is the epitome of a car accident that you can’t look awsy

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