Desi female 🐟- how do you manage work life balance with a non consulting spouse ?

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I'm male fish with a non consulting spouse. I think key is to keep in touch during travel. Also I request a few weeks remote work if i'm traveling continuously.

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Male fish with a non consulting spouse. Agree with @EY1 - keep in touch during travel, remote work and fly spouse to work location whenever possible

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scheduling sexy time !

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Ey2 right ! Thank God for Snapchats

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Super tough spot. I am considering a job change to save my marriage. Unfair on terms of my career aspirations, but personal life is more important for me.

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Thanks peeps. I've been on back to back high burn projects and I am seriously having a hard time getting any personal work or text going while travelling

Ey3 sorry to hear that ! Hope it works out better.

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