Did you cave and give your kid a device way before they should have one/before their peers because you're a "techie" family?

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We are all into tech and had son in a school explicitly WITHOUT tech. Then he started arriving from school earlier than us, so we have him a smart phone (we had no land line). Still regret it. We eventually took his phone and he now has a flip phone, lol. Will probably be getting a smart phone for him now as he is entering high school. I am not kidding, but after the initial fight against having the phone taken, maybe 3 weeks after he thanked us and said he hadn't been that happy in a while

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I hear you. Main reason is he is now t taking public transportation to school which is pretty far. Smart phone seems to be a good aid for both him (next bus? Which? Where?) and us (where is he!). Still haven't bought it, but seriously thinking about it

My son got a flip phone with restrictions on it at age 10 for emergencies only and I let him play games etc on my smartphone daily. At 13, he got a smartphone. I feel that timing was correct for my kid regardless of peers. We r a tech household mostly because I know thats the world he will live in on his own soon and it's helpful for him to navigate. I would definately promote tech-but there are way ways to restrict it so that it's safe/managable but they can learn at the same time. We have all the smart home gadgets, etc, use apps to pay, etc. I feel this has helped him now that he is almost on his own.

Yes, we did. Tablets, mobile devices, laptops, and the latest gaming equipment. Do I regret it? In some ways, yes. In some ways, no. He is very adept. My son began learning a programming language before he was ten and without any promoting at all. He also spends way too much time attached to to technology, in my opinion. Like everything in life, it comes with good and bad.

Without a doubt, yes. I admit I sometimes feel guilty for letting screens 'babysit'. My 12 year old is autistic and seeks stimulation, so his absolute favorite thing to do is to be playing video games or watching youtube videos on full volume. He doesn't have a phone or social media, but he has an ipad, xbox and wii in his room. It's hard to balance sometimes but I feel like warnings against more than 30 minutes of screentime a day (my pediatrician's advice) are a bit outdated at this point.

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