Did your 11 month old baby prefer dad over mom? My baby right now prefers dad so much more than me. He goes to my husband all the time, reaches for my husband, and cries when I hold him (away from my husband) because he wanted dad. It’s hurtful...is this just a phase?

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It is a phase. Right now my 22 month old prefers my husband but prior to that she would switch allegiances every few months (or drift back to neutral). I would try not to take it too personally.

I have two little girls and they both do this. They just love their daddy. Honestly I suggest trying not to take it personally / see the silver lining... which is that you get a little more me time :)

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