Divorced about 10 years ago and still cordial with the ex. I got remarried in 2019 and let him know getting a copy of the divorce cert was a nightmare and he should get started well before his upcoming wedding. I knew he would wait until the last minute and be screwed so I got an extra copy back in 2019. Guess who texted me today telling me he was having a hard time getting the form… ex wife still saving the day haha

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I like to think we are happily divorced. I haven’t met his new fiancé but based on the stuff he posts, they seem much more fitting. Some things never change though..

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Haha, he prolly regrets he divorced you

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That’s 100% something that I would do too

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You are a good person!!

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Good way to live!

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Did you give him the extra you had??

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You are a very big person 😂. Ginormous kudos to you, milady!

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Tell him you can get him an expedited copy for a small price of a $500 gift card to a spa. I’d drop a joke, he should act on it . If I was his fiancé, I’d send you the gift myself 😄

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