Do any of you have Asperger’s syndrome? It is likely that I have it, and was wondering if you have any tips for success. Bonus points if you’re senior and made it despite this issue.

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Yes. Senior. Wouldn’t have made it this fast without it. But you need to Understand trigger points and work v hard on EI and how you come across not how you think you “encode” how you want to. Get a professional coach even once a month for an hour. Would I change it? No way!

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