do i have to get a xmas gift for a guy i have been talking to for a month?

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If you are interested in him, yes, indulge and get him a gift. Why would you hold back. I also suggest discussing it with him. Make sure you're both on the same page for celebrating the holiday so that one of you isnt bent out of shape.

Good luck and I hope you both enjoy each other and gift giving.

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Eh in response to RSM, don’t feel bad for putting out. You did what you wanted in the moment. At least now you know you are not terrible together in bed. Now keep going for what you want!

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No definitely not. How many dates have you been on?

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Get him a waterpik. Oral hygiene is very important.

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Everyone is obsessed with waterpiks this Christmas.

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If you want to express that you’re interested, maybe a card would work. But it definitely shouldn’t be expected

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No

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Since we’re on the topic...We have had 4 dates now, hooked up twice, and have been talking every day for over a month now. We joke about how he needs to “upgrade” me (Ik, we corny). Do i wait for him to ask me to be his girl or do i ask him the doomed question: “ what are we?”

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Man I was right

3, and im seeing him again tomorrow. We have been texting every single day since we met

Ohh come on... no

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If you do, something small (box of chocolates) would suffice. That says "I was thinking about you" but at the same time its not permanent.

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