Do y’all shower before you go to bed??? Had a friend visiting and she did not wash her makeup or shower before she went to bed and I am so grossed by it but didn’t know how to bring it up. Gonna deep clean all my beddings and couch and etc after she leaves…

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Not a girl, but no. I shower in the morning.

If I do a workout in the day, I just shower afterwards. Never really heard anyone have any issues with it.

This might be a good opportunity for you to learn to get comfortable with that.

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I’ve only heard of that once when my cousin insisted I shower before bed years ago.

I live alone and don’t feel the need to normally. I did temporarily after getting a new bed with very expensive sheets, but I’m back to my no showering before bed regimen. I do remove my makeup.

This post is hilarious. Um NYC has special rules. This city is filthy. You had best clean yourself thoroughly before getting into my bed. Whether you shower in the morning or not. If I haven't left the house all day since my last shower....ok I'll probably get into bed.

But coming in after a long day or a night out....hell no do not touch the sheets without fumigation.

So an active life means usually 2 a day and sometimes 3 depending on where the gym fit in.

I'm a gay guy and proud to say my demo is probably stellar in this area.

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But he does care since he replied and then replied again and then again 💁‍♂️

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Not washing makeup off before bed is bizarre and terrible for the skin!

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That is so bad for her eyes.
I always get itchy eyes when I go to sleep with a hint of eye make up.

I shower sporadically throughout the day tbh. What I care more about is not wearing outside clothes in my bed. If you’ve been on the subway and on these streets, you need to change into house clothes before getting into my linens 😂

Makeup in the bed is gross though, that’s a different story

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One thing i brought here in the US from the Philippines is making sure house clothes are a thing. It is very culturally ingrained that we even have a name for it - “pambahay”

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I shower every night. Can’t imagine putting on clean clothes and getting under clean sheets with a dirty body.

We don’t wear shoes in the apartment and you absolutely do not touch my bed with outside clothing on.

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Santander no need to make such comments seems like everyone has different preference

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Female - only if it’s a super hot day and I feel gross. Normally just shower when I wake up or after a workout. But yes I always wash my face and take off makeup before bed.

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Same. I shower in the morning and just wash off my makeup and do my evening skincare routine at night. Nothing necessarily wrong with showering again at night, especially if you’ve been out all day or done something to get sweaty, but showering twice per day is not generally necessary.

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OP are you by any chance hispanic? I feel the same way and all my YT friends think i am the strange one. I once got in a huge fight with my husband because he laid in our bed after coming off a flight without changing his clothes or showing.

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I’m Hispanic and never heard of inside and outside clothes until I dated a YT man.
This person also wanted no shoes in the house. Crazy.

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I iteratively shower every 2 hours to live the Agile sprint lifestyle

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You should be showering at least once a day regardless if you leave your house or not. Anything less and you’re gross

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Please tell that to the corporations that use the overwhelming majority of it, not citizens.

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I always shower before bed.. gotta wash off all the dust and bad energy off me before bed.. However, if I am home, and havent gone anywhere.. all bets are off... for days.. Guy here for reference.. 😇

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Its an asian thing

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Family from the Caribbean. We shower.

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I can only shower once per day without harming my dry skin, and I do sweaty workouts in the morning, so I am a morning shower person. I do rinse off my makeup/face and if needed any dirtier body parts (eg feet, armpits) before bed.

I will say that WASP culture tells us to wash our sheets more often - think every 5-7 days max - and use top sheets to keep things clean. My Asian husband’s family showers at night but washes sheets less often and rarely washes heavy blankets that touch their body. To each their own!

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Yet in 2020 we had to teach people to wash their hands properly and in 2022 people still get irate when asked to do it.

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Nah i hate going through my day with last nights sweat on me. Rather show up clean to whatever I’m going to. And I’m not showering twice a day, pretty sure that’s not healthy (stripping oils all the time)

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I shower once in morning and once at night, I’m a clean boy

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Good boiiiii

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Wow no one on here showers less than 1x per day? How does body shower vs. full shower play into this?

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The idea that women don’t sweat as much as men and don’t need to shower daily is ridiculous. Everyone sweats, even if you don’t notice it. I’m a woman, and I bathe daily, even if it’s a “low-activity” day.

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Yo my girlfriend is majorly a germapobe
I have to shower and change my clothes if I want to sit on her couch after doing things in public places (ie , going to a store, sitting on a train)

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I saw someone alluding to your potential Asian background? Wondering if it’s a cultural thing. 🥸

Some people don't even wash their legs, nevertheless shower everyday. I find it revolting but hey to each their own mess.

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I shower every time I leave the house and come back before getting back in bed

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That’s how I feel. Nyc in generally is a bit dirtier than other cities.

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I’d remove the make up but I prefer to shower in the am and wash my hair then. If I did strenuous activities and sweated, I’d shower at night too.

You should wash guest bedsheet regardless if they shower or not. And you can always be courteous and offer make up wipes and towel, in case they need it.

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