Do you believe you have to be successful to be happy?

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Yes - you have to be successful in something to be happy . That something varies though - doesn’t have to be career or making money . It could be your relationships , what you can do for others , a hobby or whatever . Happiness happens when you feel good about accomplishing something - like helping your daughter think through her homework , or feeding a homeless person you saw on the street , or making Partner in Deloitte :)

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That is a recursive question.

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Shit I’m happy now. I went to college (first one) I finished my masters (never would have thought it possible 5 years ago) and now I work for a major consulting firm. Shit I’m making more in a year then most of my family made in a life time. I sent my parents on their first ever real vacation this year. So I have my cake everything else is icing now

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Yeah I mean they sold the only thing of value they had (small business) to help pay for my UG and some grad school. Some people talk about how much they owe their parents. I owe them a lot more

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My experience — if you tell yourself you will be happy once you achieve something, you will never be happy. You’ll chase things for the rest of your life.

When I’m at my clearest, happiness comes from moments of serendipity — a beautiful sunset, noticing a tree that I’ve seen grow over many years, feeling truly connected to someone else.

If you really want to take a different perspective, read the Tao Te Ching by Lao-Tse. Highly recommended. Alan Watts is also great for expanding your perspective.

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I think success is like a treadmill it will never end. I know I might settle down for a few weeks and be happy after I become a partner but then again I’ll stay comparing myself with people who are ore successful and chase to be that and on and on

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The question is do you have to be happy to be successful.

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Depends on your definition of success. If your happiness is purely based on work, probably. It’s important to have other things in your life that make you happy as well. Work isn’t the be all end all

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^ preach. Try looking into the hedonic treadmill.

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I think you need to find something you’re willing to work hard at in order to be happy

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Yes, hard to imagine being happy without being successful

Happiness is being (or moving towards) the best version of yourself. You decide what that best version is though.

By your own definition of success, yes. By someone else’s, no

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