Do you find secret (work) affairs or casual hookups helpful in your relationship? Question to the folks in long term relationships. Provide the number of years with your partner.

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Nice try HR


Lol I know some of yall secretly relate, but too afraid to say it, all good.

Ask your SO


Are you asking about secretly cheating on your SO with a coworker or secretly dating a coworker?



Helpful in making a reason to break up the relationship I guess 😂

Go where the live is

Go where the love is

If you want a divorce just say that.

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