Do you find that what you find attractive physically has dramatically changed over the years? Everything from body type to facial features I swoon over is so totally different

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I’ve grown to focus more on personality, sense of humor, compassion, and intellectual curiosity than race and physical beauty. As much as we all might hate it, beauty fades with age. I won’t fall for a beautiful jerk.

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Same. No matter how hot someone is the spark dies so quickly if there’s no connection. Still love hooking up w the hotties tho 🤣

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When I was younger I was super into the snapback player girl lesbian aesthetic and now my type is “the lesbian you run into in the wine section at trader joe’s” so yes

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I love these descriptors. 😄😄😄

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I used to be straight so yeah I’d say there was a pretty drastic change

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lol please share more

I used to be into typical white guys and, thanks to a couple recent experiences, I have suddenly started finding Asians very attractive...

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After hooking up with a few really fit toned guys, I realized that it really doesn’t make the hookup better. When I’m making out with a guy, I can’t see his abs or arms anyways which are often hard and don’t feel that great to touch anyways. The body contact definitely doesn’t feel as good as with more average guys. Hot bods are overrated 😂 handsome face and confident personality is enough for me

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I just feel like I find more people beautiful and attractive in more ways than one. Especially have become more open minded about dating people from backgrounds that are very different from mine

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Like others have said, I feel like I look at the person and who they are. With that being said.... I am definitely attracted to older mature men. But the type there varies from Clean cut to rugged.

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Okay so where do you put money and I need to be pampered in addition to with my own money kind of pampering? Like we can’t run outta money is all I’m saying

Hmmm nah not about money. The best experiences in life are free

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I'm 27 and am attracted to a wide variety but have only ever seriously dated guys in their 40s and 50s.

Beyond a base level of physical attraction, it's all about intellect and the personality. That's where most 20 or 30 somethings fail to hit the mark for me.

Wondering if that will change as I get older.

You'll realize that older people are just better bullshitters and not really smarter than those in 20's/30's 🤷‍♂️

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