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Nope, it just needs each to be sufficiently in love and not crazy.
I think it’s the complete opposite, it works when the woman is more in love as men can just fake it and we don’t get the ick sexually like women do. I know plenty of men who love their wife just enough to keep the marriage going. If it was the other way around, they would be divorced. There would be so many more divorces if men were similar in that regard to women. That’s why lesbian marriages have by far the highest divorce rates than both straight and gay marriages, which have the lowest
https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/11/18/married-lesbian-couples-divorce-gay-men-office-national-statistrics-data/
Came in here to say this.
Pro
No then she’ll leave him for someone she likes more.
Both partners should love each other the same amount
I think an imbalance is detrimental to a relationship in either direction
There’s always going to be even a slight imbalance and one person more in love, it’s nearly impossible for it to be perfect, even more so when it comes to timing as not everyone falls in love at the same pace
I agree to some extent - obviously the girl shouldn’t be indifferent - she should still love him. But yes if the guys love her even more it’s usually better, because it means they’re less likely to cheat and also more likely to do whatever it takes to keep her happy (whatever it is)
Hard disagree, successful relationships require solid communication skills, emotional labor from both parties, and being able to effectively compromise on things.
I think too many people crowdsource relationship advice from “fake” relationship gurus and other single people. It’s the blind leading the blind. My advice — stop going on social media to get relationship advice, actually talk to people in LTRs and get their point of view on things.
This happened in my last relationship and I tried to ignore it but deep down I wasn’t happy.
Girl
In my experience, yes. :) The only relationships that worked long term had just a slight such dynamic. Probably a generalization, but overall men seem to be, on average, less sensitive to not being fully appreciated, loved and cherished from day 1, and more willing to work to earn it. As a woman, when I don’t feel my partner sees me as “the one” on some level from day 1, I don’t even bother.
Not at all! F here and my ex had me on a pedestal. It was nice for the first few months but it got old, real fast!
Pro
In a situation where the guy I’m dating has asked to be exclusive and I’m not quite ready. I like him, but not enough to completely take myself off the market. I’d say he’s more invested right now. But Ive also have seen this turn throughout the course of other relationships. Ebbs and flows.
Wouldn’t know never been in one 😂 I’ve always like the guy more than he liked me. Clearly. Lol
Whoever is least invested in the relationship has the "power". Cold but true.
Seems that indicators to long term future relationship success are things like similar upbringing and family situations, similar values, few sexual partners for both, etc.
Based on studies I read; for instance:
https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability
No it’s the other way around! Girls break up 80% of the time!
lol no.