Do you judge a coworker if you find out he is in an open relationship? Trying to decide if it is something I should try to hide or not 🤨

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None of my business what you do outside of client work

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I would judge but I wouldn't reveal the details of my relationships to a coworker even if they are gay. Honestly let Grindr, scruff or Le apps do the talking.

I mean it's not like you're at a steam room and run into your colleague or client stakeholder. Now that would be awkward.

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I wouldn't* judge

I personally wouldn’t judge, but I can’t say the same for everyone else

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Being judgey or being open?

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Why would you tell your coworker that? Everyone will have a different reaction to that.

Mentioning someone is cute doesn't say, at all, that you're in an open relationship. Do you think people in monogamous relationships aren't allowed to find other people attractive?

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Well why would you want to judge someone who is in an open relationship? If they are happy with the arrangement then why do you care?

Doesn’t seem like something relevant to be telling coworkers

My team knows and no one seems to care... if they do I don’t care. My take: people value authenticity, but I also have very blurred business/personal so I might just be an anomaly.

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