Do you normally go out with your bosses and discuss personal lives (family/spouse/new baby)? I’m joining a small team and they invited me out to dinner and discussed these, but I’ve never connected with any previous boss/colleague to this extent 🤨

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It’d be weird as hell not to. Working together is about building relationships. Part of that is taking an interest in other people and sharing a bit about ourselves. No one’s asking for dark family secrets, but kids, hobbies, etc all super normal.

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lol
They said this is the topic of the dinner?

It’s common

People like to share personal stuff .

Very common from my experience

Yea this is very normal. Especially in a client facing role that’s what you sign up for

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