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Dating in times of pandemic, thoughts?
In my experience, many people like their tops older and bottoms younger. Not true for everyone, but it's a trend I've observed. Also, I think that bottoms are held to a higher standard in terms of being fit and cute.
I’m 22 and into tops who are older
Previously I was dating models bankers consultants investors, now I date jobless peeps and students. I am not saying that the former ones are absolutely better than the latter ones but this is just a fact. And I am an Asian btm, which let’s be honest not the top of the chain lol
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Though I feel there is a general perception that most gaysians are bottom and I have to prove them otherwise 🤷🏻♂️
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I love mature (40+ age) men a lot.
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Yeah…I’m kind of a man child. Some guys don’t like guys like me, but some guys do (props to Sawyer Brown — but I am certainly first class!—or so I think!) at least I fly it …?
I’m not entirely sure what to say here. On the one hand, I am someone who does tend to go for guys a little younger than me. (Not intentionally, but it often seems to just happen that way.) But that’s also relative — if you’re 26-29, that’s in my range. I wouldn’t go near a 21 year old.
On the other hand, I certainly can’t speak to “generally” — there are lots of people who like older folks, and it has seemed to me as though that’s become more popular over the past 10-15 years (though maybe there’s some bias in there as I’ve gotten older myself).
I can also imagine that the proportion of people who are single may drop off significantly once you hit 27-29 as compared to 21-23.
Ugh but we are all bottoms OP :(
Actually not 3x but more like 10x…Get a bit fatter now though
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I’m all over the map on this one. I’ve gone for guys 20 years younger, 13 years younger, my own age, and 7 years older. To me, it depends on the person.
What are you worried about? Do you consider quantity and quality the same things?
Well, it is definitely not an age group problem or being a bottom like you are trying to push. I’m close to 50 yo, mostly a bottom, and really can’t complain about traffic on my dating apps or quality of my sex life. As you age, it pays off to show that you take care of yourself physically and mentally, it is attractive to people. You mentioned that you are feeling fat in the main discussion, maybe it’s time to take care of that and build up your self esteem.