Do you or your partner have to “finish” when you are intimate? I found someone who also enjoys the physical parts without feeling the need to finish and wondering how common that is

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What I’m getting from this is that it is very uncommon- is that the right read?


Are they M or F?

Trust me, they'd like to be finished


How new is this relationship?

If it’s 5 months in, then hopefully they’re communicating pretty honestly with you about their preferences in bed — and it sounds like you’re both on the same page! My question was meant to gauge whether they might’ve just been saying something out of nervousness because it was your first time together.

That said, I don’t know how common it is for men to openly express a non-preference for finishing… I’ve personally never heard of it amongst my friends who date men, but maybe I’m the one in the dark!

My fiancé and I don’t always finish. I would just ask your partner what they prefer/ how important that is to them.

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