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Do you still send a gift if your kid is invited to a birthday party but can't attend? It's a neighborhood kid but not anyone we're particularly close with

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Nope!

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If they are close, yes. If not, no.

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If you RSVP’d yes but can’t make it, yes. If you’re close to them, yes. Otherwise, no.

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Eh, enclose a $20 Amazon Card - small price for not having guilty conscience. LOL

It would be a nice gesture but you don’t have to

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