Does anyone else find it difficult to ask for time off? I haven’t taken a “vacation day” since February, billed 185+ hour months consistently through the pandemic (exceeded hours for 2020 bonus eligibility), and am feeling pretty burnt out. It’s hard because other associates in my department haven’t really taken any time off either (or it has been a day or two sporadically). Would really love to take some days over Christmas to recharge but I’m nervous about perception.

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Take time off. Generally, at least my firm, it’s understood that people will be working less or not at all during the week of Christmas to New Years (unless, of course, there is something really pressing). But, still, if there’s no same understanding at your firm, send out emails letting people know that you will be taking time off.

I wouldn’t worry about the perception. It’s totally understandable that you need time off if you haven’t taken it all year (especially how hard this year has been). You need to take care of yourself. Also, I tend to respect associates more who can take time off and aren’t afraid of letting people know that they aren’t available.

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What? Yes. I take 100% of my vacation time (20 biz days) every year regardless. Just do it responsibly.

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If you are above your hours, you shouldn’t feel any pressure about it. Especially in late December when many are taking we facto vacations anyway.

The question becomes significantly trickier when you’re playing catch up.

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I feel like in 99 cases out of 100, asking for / taking vacation is only a big deal in the associate’s head. Definitely use your time.

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Get coverage ASAP and absolutely take the time.

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