Does anyone else get attached after a great first date? I went on an amazing first date with this guy and it seemed like he enjoyed it too but haven’t been responsive...I’m thinking about this way too much

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Go on more dates with other people

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Oh you're young, you'll get so jaded in 5 years you won't expect anything until 20 dates in lol.

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This is also my first date in over a year so definitely feeling a lot more

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I once went on an amazing date , it was the first but spontaneous and loved it , but the guy left the city next morning forever 😞

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That’s sad

Remember that a great first date for you doesn’t mean it was a great first date for the other person.

Sounds like it might be time to move on to the next guy. Sorry that’s just life.

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If he’s as into it as you are, you will know

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No

Where are you based at?

Sometimes there is a spark on one end and not as big of a spark on the other. If you haven't already,, communicate that you had a really good time on the date and try to set up something casual to see him again. Coffee and a walk... just to say hello over a lunch break... FaceTime Wine Time at home. Go for it.

This is me!! But hardly ever results in a second date 😅 then again I do keep going for somewhat unavailable ppl. Do you, keep your wits about you, and make sure you know when to move on!

Date me - I feel like this a lot 😅

Thanks. Yeah feeling better but still think of what could have been. I know this is silly over just 1 date but can’t help it

Any updates OP? 🤗

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