Does anyone else get so anxious from their job that at times they feel physically ill? The team I’m on is toxic and I constantly feel the pressure of my boss breathing down my neck. Starting to feel like I’m in over my head…

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Yes I used to have the most degenerate manager until I switched. My brain would get so foggy I couldn’t think or keep a clear mind, felt angry and pissed off most of the time.

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Time to switch roles! I know, easier said than done ..

My previous boss had me breaking out in hives on a daily basis by the end. The lateral move I made provided an incredibly supportive team and therefore more potential and room to grow than I would have had if I stayed in the toxic environment.

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This happened at the last place I was at. I had such severe anxiety that I would feel just SICK to my stomach as soon as I walked in to the building. I had to find a new job, I just couldn't handle it anymore.

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Me! My company is so poorly ran, I do the work of a supervisor, manager, and director, have double booked, back to back meetings all day every day, and i have 14 people reporting to me. Add to it no direction, too many cooks in the kitchen, and 60 hour work weeks….I throw up at least twice a week.

Looking for something else but it can’t come soon enough!

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