Does anyone else have some friends that are so negative that they bring you down with their negative thoughts? I have one that only texts me when he has some kind of problem or to complain about....

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Something. I know it does affect me negatively but it’s hard since we’ve known each other for so long

Yes. But I’ve also been that friend. Tell them, cause I had a friend completely catch me off guard with this. I didn’t notice and the way it was handled...

Anyways, I’m going through the same thing now. I told my friend that I need time to process without getting upset because it’s a little more than just them being negative.

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