does anyone have anxious attachment style? how do you get through the feeling? i’m in a LDR and anxiety def picks up when my SO doesn’t give me attention bc he’s out with his friends at an all day event. doesn’t have to be all the time, but i would’ve liked a 5 minute phone call

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Just came off 2 years of long distance and definitely understand the feeling. Something that helped us was scheduling out calls/“dates”. If we were busy all day and didn’t have much time to talk I felt better knowing he would call me on his drive home later or we’ll have a long facetime Saturday night, for example

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