Does anyone have any advice about dealing with a gaslighting partner who is my direct superior? Have tried talking to the partner as a way to be on the same page but to no avail.

I'm new to the area and come from a laid-back California tech startup environment. I'd like to update my wardrobe to be more appropriate to DC. What would you say is the style here, especially for guys?

I have four girls in my class that talk to each other NON STOP! It is so disrespectful! They talk right over me and even begin talking again before I even finish my sentence asking them to stop! Help!

I'm done getting paid 1/3 of the class teacher pay and expected to teach the lessons. The other Paras in the class seem to think this is normal. I certainly don't get the same respect as the teacher. Am I alone here?

I’ve been working with a founder/small biz freelancing as their digital producer for a little bit. I’m having issues lately because they won’t give me a budget for content they want to make for their site/Instagram. I’m worried with the budget gate keeping that we’re going to burn bridges with contacts, especially now that we’re dipping into my personal contacts for content collaboration. Is this normal? How do I get them to give me a budget to work from?

Do you ever hear or use profanity in meetings sans clients? Was in a meeting today and the OMP went off on two partners saying F + You! Everyone was like 😱

What do attorneys even wear to work? Do you find more are in casual clothes than suits and ties?

My CDs, while brilliant, suck at organization (i.e. rarely respond to emails and if they do, only half-answer, don’t care about proofing, lose files). I’m sick of defending them to account. Tips?

Ladies, do you ever correct students when they write your name as "Mrs"? Do you care? 😂

I started working at a real estate office about 2 weeks ago and my boss is demanding I give him access to my personal phone since it's the one I use for work. Is it me or is this an insane request?

My partner is burning bridges, what should I do?

How do y'all usually come out to your teams? I just try to mention my bf as early as possible to get it out of the way.

What are some affordable places to shop for business casual clothes for an incoming female intern?

Anybody else ever had a crush on a colleague (not the same practice group, no reporting duty, more senior)? Don’t ever want to cross the line but def crushing hard… creating opportunities to run into each other etc. AH help!

Fellow fish, how do you deal with condescending coworkers? Tired of this dude making me feel about 1 ft tall and like an idiot

I think I am a pretty good programmer. I can do clean coding and make complex systems that are easily maintainable and understandable for my colleague's at a good pace. However, my personality afk is completely the opposite, I'm messy, incoherent in speech, easily confused and distracted and perceived as ditzy. I've been accused of being dumb sheep. (If you know mbti I'm a stereotypical ENFP)

Is this just imposter syndrome from a different angle?

Anyone in the Big 4, how stressful is it being a black senior, rather being the only person of color on your team?

My male manager stares at my man boobs..

Just had a very uncomfortable conversation with a partner. I have some time off booked to go to my brother’s wedding (I’m the best man). We were chatting and I mentioned that my brother’s future husband is so nice and really a great guy, and we already consider him a member of our family. Partner’s tone immediately shifts and as we’re ending the call he says, “Okay, enjoy the time with your family at the civil ceremony.” Like… girl you live in California, you cannot be this backward.

Are there any people of color
in production that have felt excluded from
teams on set. How do you deal with being bossed around. How do you deal with micro-aggression and two faced stylists??

Has anyone else had a mentor (assigned to them by the Company) who seemed to have it out for you? I mean downright sabotage to make you look bad left and right. I didn’t realize it at first. She was fake friendly, but she was discrete too. Some of the executives thought she was amazing, but I had to clean up her work all the time. She wasn’t above me either on the chain of command. Later I found out she had tried for the exec assistant role and they didn’t choose her, they wanted me instead.

Not sure if this is the right bowl but I need some financial guidance. I've never had money and Im finally getting to a point in my career where I'll be making more. My wife is also starting a physician job in July once her residency is over. Total income will be around 350-400k for us. Im nervous because I've never had to manage that much money so I want to make sure I'm doing the right saving, investing, etc strategy. Any thoughts on what we need like advisor or accountant? What do you all do?

Mid 40sF, recently separated, seeking intelligent convo. For the love of god, do not be dishonest. I don’t even care if you’re married and lonely. I get that. Looking for same age range.

Accepted a job with a new smaller consulting firm that uses Fidelity Altegrity management for 401k. What's the best thing to do with 401k balance from old job?

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What area of tax would give you the best WLB? I know they are all long hours mostly, but what would be worst and best?

Hi Guys,

Can someone tell me how I should proceed with my HRA exemption in Oracle .I mean I have rent receipts and rent Agrement and I have declared in detail what should be the next step.

Thanks in advance

Is anyone willing to provide KT for cloud Devops

HI 👋 everyone, I could use your help! I’m trying to get a better sense of the size of the addressable market for one software language versus another, and one approach I was thinking of was total aggregate number of job listings for developers with each skill.

Does anyone here know what tools/sites might be able to best approximate that, or another approach to get the same information? Thank you so much for any help you can provide!

Hi! Has anyone tried Glow Recipe Guava Vitamin C serum? If yes, would you recommend and how did it help you?
I am basically planning on upgrading my skincare and introducing Vitamin C to start with. I typically have clear skin with one -two acne hyperpigmentation marks that I am trying to fix. My Skin type is normal-dry.
I saw mixed reviews about the serum mostly good though. Nevertheless wanted to check if anyone had any experience that they’d like to share. Thank you :)

Is there any website that has real creative decks to pull deck design inspo from? I’m always curious how other people lay out their decks!

What all wellsfargo check in BGV ??

Our agency had two founders. They just split because one sexually harassed an employee, but the good partner somehow lost the lawsuit and now we’re stuck working for the asshole. Do we have leverage?

Coinbase added support for Litecoin. Just FYI

Anyone have experience/tips in switching career paths? SLP by trade looking to switch to customer success or recruitment. I have many transferrable skills, but it’s been tough getting my foot in the door of the non-clinical world.

Any attorneys here with ADHD/ADD? I was recently diagnosed ADHD, but it was clear I had it my whole life. It did not materially hinder me until law school, and now it’s pretty debilitating as an associate. Since I have been medicated, some executive functioning has been better but it’s really hit or miss. Anyone have any success stories? Would in-house be easier to manage as there is less executive functioning (ie no timekeeping and billing)? I appreciate any response in advance. Thanks!

My fundamental knowledge of Corporate Finance sucks (reading statements, calculations, etc) How do I get better? And then eventually learn to model too?

I used to be a much more driven person in college and now that I’ve been beaten down and humbled so many times in consulting, I feel like I’ve lost some drive. Anyone else feel the same?

For those of you whose firms don’t have free market work allocation, what kind of system do you have in place (particularly for more junior attorneys)? Does it work?

Any words of wisdom for managing an increasingly intense workload as a junior associate? Im corporate/transactional but because of my specialization I’m being brought into litigation matters for regulatory analysis. As such, I have 4 separate groups giving me work. I like being busy but it feels like everything needs to be done yesterday and my plate is quite full with more to come.

Finance lawyers, I’m a mid level suffering from imposter syndrome. While I generally understand financial covenants, it recently occurred to me that I have no clue WHY certain ones are included, or how they’re calculated. Like, why EBITDA instead of EBITDAX? DSCR or liquidity? Do I even know what I’m talking about?? Any good resources you’d recommend?

Is it reasonable to be expected to spend 20-30 non-billable hours a month checking your paralegal’s work? (i.e. summarizing hundreds of records and bills). The partner said he “didn’t use paralegals” at his previous firm and eating the time is an “investment in yourself.” Is this common?

What do attorneys even wear to work? Do you find more are in casual clothes than suits and ties?

Has anyone ever heard of a hospital in Mexico, suing a US Citizen for hospital fees incurred in Mexico? Bill was paid, and now new fees are being claimed. The suit is in state court. Thoughts? Cont.

Have a full interview scheduled and am confident in my chances. I obtained this interview through a referral but have been working with a great recruiter that has sent me great positions and I have really enjoyed worked with. Am I overstepping if I reach out to the recruiter for some advice and questions? Also, assuming I get the position, I would still like to send the recruiter a thank you gift for her hard work even though it didn’t lead to a position. What amount for the gift?

An Uber driver’s account was deactivated. Uber claims it’s because this person was part of a class action. He denies signing a consent form and being part of it. The class action was filed in another state and he never drove over there. Three questions - (1) if this is true, can Uber retaliate based on this. (2) if he never signed a consent form, can he be part of a class action, and (3) what’s his best course of action if he wants to drive for Uber again?

Is it normal for contract attorneys to have the same billable requirements but half the compensation, or does the lower salary come with lower reqs?

Burned out while studying for the bar and working FT. Seeking juice. Did anybody actually have any of the Barbri professors in law school??? Prof. Schechter (GW - Torts); Prof. Freer (Emory - CIV Pro); PAULA FRANZESE (Seton Hall - RP); Prof. Noreuil (ASU - Crim/Crim Pro).

Anyone have reviews on Lawmatics? Do you enjoy it? Is it worth it?

Do ppl bill for reviewing correspondence between client and partner regarding the case? If so, what would the narrative be? Not sure if I should be eating this time. Hope not!

Was a bit caught off guard this week when I received notice that I was not moving forward in the interview process for a position in-house after being asked to apply by the person hiring and subsequently told I would move forward to the next stage b/c they were very interested in me. Given the sudden 180 & the fact the position is still open, I assume there was a concern about me that came up but literally no idea what it could have been! Would love advice on if (& how should ask for feedback?

Can someone licensed in one of the 3 states (MN FL and PA) that use Third Degree Murder give me a quick explanation of it? Is it what most jurisdictions would charge as manslaughter or is a break off of second degree murder?

How to deal with condescending supervisor? Working with someone recently, feel being lectured all the time.

Any CLE recommendations for junior litigators to get familiar with court rules, cycle of a case, etc.? Anything helps!