Does anyone have any tricks to make themselves look older? When I'm clean shaven I'm a baby face 👶🏼

The military saved me. I'm serious. I brought so many conflicts into the service, my father was an alcoholic, and I was an opioid addict. I've been clean for seven years thanks to my training. Forever thankful to the troops for that.

How old were you when you had your first child?

Really burning out from everything. I’m back after maternity leave and my full time schedule just kicked in. Baby girl just turned 5 months and is at home with family. Oldest in preschool. I just can’t do it all. I can work 8 hours sure but I mean I’m going 9-5, back on for a half hour 530-6, back off until 8. In my “down time” I am breastfeeding or having dinner with family then going through the entire childcare routine. I get everyone ready in the AM. I do drop off and pick up. I can’t breath

Any recs for where to get a Mexican dessert? My book club is Thursday and dinner is Cinco de Mayo themed. I’m thinking Tres Leches cake, churros, or sopapillas. Would love a rec on a restaurant or bakery that does one well so I can buy it and bring it (have a new baby so outsourcing tasks like this whenever I can!). Not a fan of flan.

My best friend and his wife lost their baby. Miscarriage during the second trimester. I want to support them but what should I do, if anything? I don’t have children or know anyone who has miscarried before so I’m not sure what they need right now.

I can’t close my eyes, when I do, I see that young black man on the grown with someone seating on his neck. I am raising a black kid and this keeps me up at night. I am so heartbroken.

My best friend is dying of cancer and won’t let me help. We are both 47. She has a husband and 2 boys (13 and 11). Youngest is my godson. Her husband cannot handle this alone but wont’t let me move in to help. I am 4 hrs away. Do I just rent a place there? Both are stubborn AF. Not married no kids. Can pick up and do whatever.

Any maternity clothing recs?

Hi Guys,

I have an OL from LTI with a CTC-20 Lpa..As my mother had brain surgery, i need to be with her. i have asked HR to provide WFH. Does LTI support in these kinds of cases?? I have also asked HR to set up a call with the Project Manager.

Comments pls ..

Looking at people’s photos of skiing with their kids, dressing up their kids, making me really want a kid. Why is it so difficult for me? 😢

Can any Parent fish recommend a solid laptop for school now that we have remote learning. I have a 9 year old that will start remote learning and needs a laptop for school. Any recommendations?

Anybody willing to help a broke kid out with some mock interview prep?

I got a bad observation. He said one of my students were not awake and lively on Zoom. Ugh. What? I see teachers that take 30-50 days off some working 2 days a week days. They get perfect marks. I can't even look my principal in the face now.

Hello!
I just received an offer from Deloitte USDC coming on as a Investigations Senior Consultant @ $110k, $5k signing bonus, 100% remote position (requested) Can Someone explain what benefits are afforded to me? Is the 401k match the same? Recruiter stated 3 weeks and 3 days of PTO…does that mean 18 days or 24 days? Also, can someone clarify the parental leave policy as compared to core? Can these be negotiated? I’ve been a 10 year Special Agent/Federal Agent and Officer with the military. Tx!

Taking 14 weeks of paternity leave next month... I love Deloitte’s benefits 🚶🏻‍♂️

My best friend is finally pregnant after years of trying and a few miscarriages. She moved 2 hours away from me this summer, but I still want to be there for her and support her in any way I can. Any tips or advice for supporting her down this new path when we see each other less? This is also my first friend to have a baby so it’s all new to me!

Looking for hope & exceptions with this situation my inlaw (German citizen) is in. They came over on Fulbright and now is on O1 but in exile back in Germany. I know it’s a long shot but has anyone been in this situation and transitioned to permanent US residency? They are married to a US citizen and have a kid (born in US). Immigration attorneys are not super helpful on precedent.

Pregnant with my first baby and I’m having the WORST sciatic nerve pain. I had a back injury with nerve damage when I was in my early 20s and at 18 weeks pregnant, it’s almost unbearable. I’ve increased my prenatal workouts like yoga, Pilates and walking because my doctor said that helps but it’s not helping. Any advice from the momma fishes? 🙏🏻

My wife got offer in LTI and she will be 3 months pregnant at that time of joining(oct 10). Need help to understand maternity leave policies in LTI. How many days she need to be in payroll to avail maternity leave

Any ony one from CGI tell me what is the appraisal cycle in CGI.
I have joining date 14th July. Am I eligible for this year.

This has probably been asked here before but I’m curious to hear what other writers think… are you pro or anti Oxford comma?!

What should be the salary of person with experience in core Supply chain - Demand Planning and has been working in Finance Operations for past year. Total years of experience is 7.

Looking for a senior creative team for a couple of insanely fun brands… One in entertainment, the other in social media. Both AOR, so the world is your oyster.

I just left Amazon and would like to start applying for other faang companies. Any suggestions on where to start?

I shared the wrong screen in a meeting with 1 direct report (Director) and 1 of his direct reports (Sr Manager) 😱. I have 2 screens and Zoom chose the one not in front of me and I had no idea. The screen had my to do list on it and number 1 was “send resume to x” (name of recruoter and company was there). About 3 seconds after I shared the Director said “I think you’re sharing your to do list” and I immediately closed it. I have to assume they saw everything. What do I do?

Best mid and large scale product organizations? Looking to leave consulting and not seeing much besides Amazon and Capital One. Coming from the west coast, not interested in federal work.

Help me brainstorm: my DH is late 40s and wants to pívot and get into a consulting & real estate practice. Lots of experience on the real estate side. Which firms or groups should he look at? He’s spoken to MBB and essentially they do 1-2 real estate finance type engagements a year.

Has anyone ever been removed off an engagement cause of bad attitude. Did you get fired or did you get assigned to another project?

I don’t have two full time roles exactly. But I have freelance work that’s the equivalent of a full time role. In fact, I have sometimes made 2x the amount I make at my job freelancing. I am essentially a fractional director for one company and I do other high level freelance work. I did not plan for this or seek it out. People just came to me through referrals or seeing my work elsewhere. I also got five job offers this year. I accepted one that will give me a 40% raise.

Hello People,
I am a Computer Science Graduate looking for co-op/internships for summer and fall term. Kindly drop a comment if you can help me in any way.

Can any one refer me for the QA automation roles in Accenture. Please iam badly need a jump

Can anyone give me some pointers on how to make the switch from staff accounting to an analysis role?

I have 7 years of accounting experience and I feel like I'm more than capable of doing analysis work but I also think I am being overlooked because of my background.

It amazes me how so many of you amateurs don't know how to properly tie a tie.

Female bankers... we can do better in terms of Fashion. Black on black on black. Who is mixing it up?

Do you think the FTC will actually block the Rite Aid deal? If so, is Amazon going to swoop in for the win?

Hey CFA friends, am I allowed to use an HP10bII+ on the exam? I heard there are only a few models allowed...

The number of times I’ve said “Thanks” when I actually meant “F*** me, I guess I have to do this”...

Who is the best Hedgefund manager right now?

I think my BSing skills have improved tenfold since starting this job.

Sunday escapism: What's your dream job? (Seriously)

Steph vs Westbrook tonight- What do you guys think?

Which bschool did you go to and do you have any regrets about going there?

How much is total comp for a normal MD nowadays?

Well, the night ended with me hitting on my childhood friend’s mom...that was interesting

Taking Thursday and Friday off. What should I binge on Netflix/HBO/Amazon?

Any analysts interested in the MD track? Why/why not?

Who else doesn’t know what to do with the newfound freedom now that the CFA has been postponed?

Any CAIA holders out there? How have you generally been viewed?

Give me a good concert to go to in the next two weeks. In Manhattan or BK

CMT vs CAIA?

I currently work in sales for an asset manager and have an MBA. Would like a designation, one that’s applicable to asset management and has some status/recognition. Appreciate any thoughts or insights. (Also dont want to take CFA)

What’s your preferred morning alarm setting rn? Options in the comments

Why aren't girls' pants made with pockets? Do the men designing them think we don't need them because we use our vagina to store things?