Does anyone have experience with a prenup/postnup? I have been wanting to get a postnuptial because I did not think about these things when I got married. We make the same salary, have separate accounts, but I have been building my wealth and working hard at saving my money while he has a mountain of debt and doesn’t save. It scares me to think if anything happens, he could just take half of my assets.

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Death comes to us all. Hopefully it comes to him first.

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I feel like this (finance) is a conversation that you should have had before marriage but it’s never too late to get a postnup

Speak to a divorce attorney and see what your options are. Even if you have to pay a consultation fee, it will probably be worth it.

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