Does anyone know a good career coach or counselor.... I really need to talk with someone about my future. I really don’t think consulting is right for me given my bipolar disorder but Idk what to do

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I would find a really good therapist that takes insurance. Look into one's that practice CBD (cognitive behavioral therapy). It will make a world of a difference. They can also help you strategize what's important to you and guide you.

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I’d try and separate the two as much as I can, a therapist for your overall mental health. A mentor for your professional discomfort.

If not obvious, the best career advice often comes at the expense of mental health and you need to hear both sides in some way and make your call. There are too many what ifs , if someone is choosing trade offs for you.

There’s life after consulting and there’s life aside from consulting. Great advice above to separate the two (professional advice + mental health advice).

Where are you located

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