Have any of you ladies managed to get over an ex after being hung up on them for years? My ex and I broke up two years ago but I still think about him every day. We live in different countries and he’s now married - I’ve tried multiple therapists, changing cities, traveling loads, throwing myself into work, dating, self help books, you name it. While the pain has become much more bearable, it’s never gone away. Will it ever?
I'm a very logical guy who tends to respond better to semi-academic self help books than to therapy (although I do both). Anyone have any recommended reads on anxiety disorders including PTSD?
What's with the saturation of self help/ productivity books on social media (reddit, Instagram etc.) ? Not saying I don't mind reading them, but I see this quite a bit. Know a few people who consciously only read non fiction instead. Just thinking aloud over here. Would like to hear what you guys think ?
Hey everyone! I just wanted to share this book, The First 90 Days, I’m reading that helps with transitions into new positions. It’s given great tips so far!
Any self-help/improvement books you want to share that you have found impactful?
Best business-oriented, but novel-style books with good writing, style, & interesting characters? Not really self-help/advise focused, more of actual literature with business themes/plots. Any recs?
Anyone have good NON-FICTION recommendations? Enjoy self-help and psychology books (as long as they’re not overly pedantic). Already read grit, outliers, atomic habits, running (haruki murakami)
Would you say summaries are as effective for self help books like "the subtle art of giving a fk" and other similar books? I feel the books themselves ramble on too much on a side story only to tell a point that could be summed up in a couple sentences.
Or am I just not getting good book recommendations for growth/development on mental well being and productivity
Anyone have any recs for self help books? Looking for more relatable topics to myself I guess?
I’m dealing with severe anxiety about my future. Woke up at 4 this morning and found it difficult to get back to sleep. I’ve talked to a therapist and family, taken medication, and read self-help books, nothing seems to work. I feel as though it’s never going to get better.
Any suggestions for healthy self help books? Or healthy eating or understand why we get cravings? Looking for self help books alone those lines to help get my eating right
Ok so. I have been on this journey for almost a year now to try and 'get to know and love myself' and I'm not there yet. I separated from my ex in March of 2020 and divorce was finalized in October 2020. I'm still sad, lost, angry etc. I'm trying/tried therapy, meditation, ayurveda, self help videos, books, but I'm not happy with myself and I don't think I know myself. I want to be happy alone before I meet anyone new. Any tips or advice on how I can effectively accomplish this? Thank you!
Did anyone but multiple self help books from well being subsidy? I'm thinking about buying 20-30 of them but wondering whether they will reject it...
My therapist just told me I'm depressed..do you ever feel like they tell you things you hear a lot or could have figured out on your own? Like take care of yourself, it's ok to feel such and such, etc. I'm still newer to therapy so wondering if that's the common experience? Do you ever have moments where you're like wow that actually is eye opening and I wouldn't have gotten that from reading self help books and websites etc?
Anyone who has been able to find a solution for procrastination that actually worked? I’ve read a lot of self-help books (watched YouTube productivity videos) but the biggest barrier is I procrastinate the implementation of the advice I’ve received.
Book recs? I love reading self-help books but sometimes they bore me. Any good fiction series out there that can get me reading more often?
Best books to read when starting your own business, but also embody imposter syndrome & validation issues. Anything from self-help, psychology & business is welcome. TY x
What “self help” books are you guys reading? I just read Untamed by Glennon Doyle and wow, I want to start from the beginning again, but feel like I should read something else. Would love any suggestions.
Need some good self help books. Any reccos?
Any good book recommendations?
I’m into self help or motivational books right now. Also steering away from anything political just want a good read for by the lake.
Interviewing at Mckinsey. Need help with case interview prep. Any suggestions beside self-help books?
is new always better?
Anyone looking for Devops role
In my corporate practice, I’ve noticed an influx of new LLCs being registered in Wyoming. Does anyone know why? Any benefits I should be advising my clients about?
Any respiratory therapist worked in the Phoenix area and liked their hospital? Where’s the best place to work ER or peds? What’s the going rate?
Stay positive, WFHers.
I did not get a full time offer from my internship this past summer at a top consulting firm they told me on the second to last day. I have been trying to recruit at other consulting firms however haven’t received any offers yet. I struggle with severe depression and anxiety and often struggle with telling others when I struggle with it. I am having thoughts of ending it all because of the combined stress of school and now recruiting with little opportunities left.
Boss verbally said my raise would take effect this November. We’re in a small agency startup. Should I expect a written, updated contract? Or should I just wait first if it does take effect and see?
DM for referal at Infosys for below positions
If you are in a general commercial litigation practice group, can you describe what your day to day looks like? What do you like/dislike? Is there a big learning curve? Anything else that would be good for someone to know considering this practice area?
Any advice on material needed for the LCSW? I’ve been sitting on my LMSW for 8 years and am ready to switch to PP. I have been within agencies since graduating, but never “needed” to take it. I’ve taken it and failed once already. Any guidance would be appreciated!
Anybody here working at Salesforce? What do you like about working there? And vice versa?
I’m 1yr out of law school and in-house but I’ve been boxed into a role I don’t want. Often tasked with admin work while my white male counter part (graduated the same year as me) gets to work with different teams. I’ve tried asking for new assignments and to work with other teams but my boss is not supportive. Any advice on how to get a new job when I hardly have experience in what I actually want to be doing??? Also the pay is awful.
What is the FEP component in mindtree? Will this be included in my fixed pay? Will i get the whole amount mentioned in offer letter or will there be deductions?
Got excited when I saw fewer modules than AUD in the Becker REG book….until I realized they’re just longer 😅
Creating a Poloniex account. They want to see a utility bill delivered via snail mail (no e-bills). I get all bills electronically since it’s now the year 2018. What’s anyone done to get around this?
How long would you recommend staying in big law to get experience before branching out on your own? How many of you did that before moving to a smaller firm or starting your own? Looking for advice
Seniors of Deloitte NYC. What are your current salary and bonus numbers? I’m in Tax S2 at 86k and 8k bonus last year.
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If you make it to the final round MD interview in consulting (after recruiter, behavioral, skills, case(s), do you essentially automatically get an offer? What will that interview consist of? Any offer details presented in it? This is for a T2 firm
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Does anyone else have a celebrity they hate for really no reason? I can't stand Norm McDonald and I don't know why.
What did everyone make of the Zuckerburg hearing today? Will anything change? Personally it just revealed to me how important it is that we start electing people who have basic tech understanding
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Vote, which is worse, Morgan Stanley or AIDS.
Finding it hard to separate time outside of the office and hunting for a new job... feels like I need to put everything else on hold to focus on the job hunt. Anyone feel the same?
I have a deeper appreciation for family
How long is your commute?
Got a valuation senior analyst role at a big fund. 4 years of experience (mix of big 4 and finance). Salary offered 140 + 20 bonus. Confused cause I’m currently a senior analyst and this doesn’t give title increase but pay increase. Thoughts?
Made the mistake of listening to Bruno Mars "Versace on the Floor" at work. Now I don't want to work, I just want to make babies
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