Does anyone know what happens to soul when a person dies? Are there any scriptures like bible quran or gita describing this with true facts ? Just curious as I lost my 1 parent long ago and I think about it lot. Is there something like re birth ?

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I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I’m not a religious person and I honestly don’t know what happens after death, but if you’re looking for actual research studies about the after life, I believe the University of VA has some center that studies peculiar cases where children know intimate details of people that passed away generations ago with no chance of having prior knowledge. Carl Sagan of all people said it was a phenomena that was actually worth studying. Aside from that, I’d probably look into medical case studies involving near death experiences. I found a lot of comfort in spiritual writers in my younger years, so it may be worth exploring your curiosities in all the books you mentioned.

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Check out Hinduism concepts. So basically what happens when you die is you get reincarnated this keeps happening. You can come back as any living thing. And earth js prettty much gods test to see if humans can come together and if not they will destroy earth and start over if there is too much evil. So when you die and are reincarnated is technically the next level. So they are fine and living they are just got an early start

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