Does anyone live with their parents in their late 20s? How did you build boundaries with your parents and counter their expectations that you owe it to them?

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

Confession 1: I have been dating this guy and have felt so empty inside and sad in our relationship and I just now realized it’s because he treats me like shit and doesn’t act like he wants me and lies to me! He is completely different than when we were just going out getting to know each other, but I’ve been holding on to that version of him. Why was this simple revelation so hard for me?!
Confession 2: I want to keep trying to make it work for some reason

I am driving both me and my husband crazy. We both work from home in a 4 bedroom home pretty decent size. My husband wants to do daycare and id prefer a nanny. Thankfully money isn’t the the concern, it’s more he thinks we’ll be distracted and I am nervous about anti-vax people and rise of polio and whooping cough. We went to a daycare we liked but they did they allowed religious exceptions which makes me uncomfortable. Would love to get feedback.

Going back to work next month. Have a full time nanny but feel like even that isnt enough. I work all sorts of timezones. Europe has my morning, Asia has my evening. Nanny 9-5? 7-3? 10-6? No clue what will work best and don’t want to be inconsistent with her. Any advice on the return?

Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

I honestly might break up with my boyfriend because of dead bedroom issues. We’re 26 and he acts like it’s normal to only want to sleep together every couple of weeks. Meanwhile I could do it every day. My theory is low testosterone, but I doubt he’d be interested in doing anything about it. Oof.

Anyone look at there SO and think, holy shit I am so lucky?

Damn I cheated and ate a donut, how far does that set me back?

I am long distance with my boyfriend and am feeling really unsettled about our relationship. We’ve been together 9 months, and long distance for 4/ 9. I love him and am lonely while distanced, but super happy with our relationship. I’m unsettled about the future and if we will be happy together in the future. I do not want to move to where he is located and he does not want to move here. He definitely wants kids, and I’m younger and more unsure. He’s a suburbs guy, and I want lavish city life.

Got broken up with by my bf of 1 yr. He said he felt like something was missing from our relationship but couldn’t (or wouldn’t) say what. I know I should just focus on moving on but I can’t help but fixate on this. We had similar goals, values, lifestyles and were pretty compatible. We got along great and the physical chemistry was still there. So what could be missing????

What is the cost of living in metro cities like
Bangalore, Pune , Hyderabad, gurgaon
Family with wife working remote and nursery going kid.
Will Need maids for cooking meals, cleaning.
Need details of
1. Rent 2bhk
2. Maids salary
3. School fees
4 Transportation cost.
5. Other monthly expenses.

I had someone from school flame and unfriend me on Facebook because I said jobs are the best way to help someone go from low income to self-sufficient. And this was after I had her child in school and was told I was a great teacher.

How do you pursue a dream without getting a divorce?

Welp, I’m off to the home office while my wife goes and plays D&D with our new group. Sad to miss it, but feeling freaking lucky as F that I have a fun partner. We also kill at Fortnite together 🥵

How do people decide or take this big decision of spending the rest of life with someone by just meeting them few times in arrange marriage setup. Where parents are involved and which makes things so complicated as more people of other generation have different thinking and mindset. People spend years in relationship the. Breakup then get over it and then again go in another relationship for years and finally marry someone who they barely know. (Cont. In comment)

How do people make friends here? I have the ones i grew up with and a couple I made in the last couple of years (neighbors/through mutual friends) but I generally find that people here just stick with their social circles

Moved to the DC area about two years ago and have yet to establish myself friendwise. I usually tag along with my partner to all of his events as I’m traveling 5 days a week and have no forum. Any...

I’d appreciate any tips on how to deal when a close (purely platonic and nothing but friendly) work relationship has ended. Going to work seems bleak nowadays...

I'm 1 out of 4 siblings, I make the most out of my siblings, do you sometimes double down or not share your accomplishments with your family to NOT seem you are "showing off"? Or should I just live my life?

What are the total compensation at a PE firm based on year

Ladies, do you like getting flowers or would you prefer getting something else? And what would the something else be (in a comparable price range?

KPMG, how do you change your 401k elections before your bonus gets paid out? I don't want any of my bonus to go into my 401k

Hello friends! Is anyone able to provide a referral for a ZS position I saw?

Can I leave after 2 days of joining? The role is not suitable for me.

Any moderate tennis players here (can pass back and forth) down to play tomorrow at 10 am?

Anyone had success working out during lunch? Not sure how my manager is gonna feel about it

What is everyone planning to do in holidays? tier 3 is here :(

Has anyone hear heard of projective? Was reached out to by them and went on glassdoor and their salaries seem very high… can anyone confirm what pay is as I’m thinking glassdoor might be a bit inflated?

L5 Chicago 140K 15% 25K sign on 250 equity. What room do I got to negotiate?

What’s your favorite meditation app and why?
I’ve tried Headspace, 10percent, and Calm. Was thinking about trying Sam Harris’ next. Would love to know what else is on the market that is as good. Thanks in advance!

Russell Peters funny as hell! On prime

Trying to get a 45 y/o sibling in to consulting (was an entrepreneur prior in the restaurant industry). No college degree but willing to bust his but to learn. Books/online courses recommended pls

Company just submitted my Perm. I have a great offer from another company and 3 years only H1. Should I move and let go of the GC process at current company?

My h1b in expiring in July but I have my extension approved.
If I were to go to India this month and return in June, can I do it on my current passport stamp since I will return before it expired?

Immigration question.
Firm has applied for my GC but i dont have an approved i140 yet. My GC application and my home office location is in state X. And i’m planning to move to a state Y which is under 50 miles from my old home location. So my question is, if I change the states but the new location is under 50 miles will that be a problem for my green card application? I am planning to email the immigration lawyers but wanted to see if anybody has done something similar and share experiences

Why are many of the desi SMs I come across, workoholic? So discouraging. I came to the US to skip the desi politics while offshore. But aasman se gire and khajoor mein atake ho gaya yaha. 🤦🏽‍♂️

UPA or NDA?

Give atleast a one line reason too!

Good Indian restaurant recommendations in northwest Chicago?

Unpopular opinion:
Don't understand what people are loving about Indian Matchmaking
I do not find it hilarious and do not find Nadia adorable 🙄

Trying to initiate the Australia PR, 8yrs. of industry background but EY "technology consulting' for few yrs. now. Suggestions to pick the occupation for assessment? Mgmt Consulting? Or software engg?

Hi everyone, I am getting married soon and my family has told me that I cannot do a first look with the bride and can only see her after the baraat is over and the wedding is about to begin. There’s no religious or cultural reasoning that they provided but I wanted to see if this is normal. We’re both Hindu for reference. As this has thrown off our plans, I wanted to see if this is normal / not unheard of. Can you share your thoughts? Thanks in advance

Anyone knows if Navigant has stopped H1?

Anyone has recent L1B extension experience ?