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For over 15 years I held customer support roles in a variety of industries. At the same time developing skills in other areas; such as being ordained as a Zen priest and receiving an Integral Coach certification. After being laid off in May, I decided to pursue my coaching business full time.
My question is, for those who have sought out coaching, which area of your life did you focus on first and why?
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Everyone has the potential.
Chief
Everyone has the capacity to do anything.
But controlling your emotions and desires is part of being a well rounded and “good” person.
So it is something cheaters say to justify their actions.
And no, I don’t and have not cheated or even thought about it.
Chief
Yeah, good distinction. I am entirely capable of cheating. I *could*. But I would not.
Chief
It’s something cheaters say to justify their actions. And maybe something some people tell themselves when they don’t believe they deserve better.
Never once cheated on a SO in my life. Either you have a moral code or you don’t. Cheaters don’t and try to normalize their behavior saying everyone does it.
Agreed
Pro
I don’t think everyone does. Cheating takes work (lying, sneaking around etc). I’d rather just end it then start a new thing.
Rising Star
I cheated once on my second grade spelling test because I forgot how to spell “because” and I still feel guilt about it to this day😭.. and haven’t cheated since
Rising Star
There should be a support group for people who still carry the heavy burden of cheating on elementary school spelling tests 😭
Rising Star
Cheating on a wife or cheating on hours?
Enthusiast
People are only as faithful as their options.
Rising Star
Idk getting married at 25 and not having sex with anyone else till you die at say 80 is pretty extreme.
Lol don't get married at 25? Get separated/divorced before 80?
I actually always love hearing about couples who married- divorced- remarried. I respect the decision to take breaks
Rising Star
It’s a choice
I don't have the capacity to cheat. Not because I'm too good of a person, I just don't stay with people when I lose interest. Really happy being single
Pro
I don’t have the capacity to cheat. That’s largely a would not, but that would not is SO firm that it represents an incapacity to do so. I just could never do that to someone.
Same. I love my husband so much that no one else is even attractive to me any more.
Cheated once, I’m F. It was disappointing and made me feel like crap.
Definitely capable but I try to remember that feeling if I’m tempted and choose not to and to do the work instead.
Pro
"Cheaters live longer."
-anyone who has ever played paintball competitively-
Chief
Everyone has the capacity to cheat… just like everyone has the capacity to murder or to steal. What separates us is our actions. I could never imagine cheating on anyone - even if I fell out of love with someone, I couldn’t imagine wanting to willfully hurt that person, any more than I could imagine physically hurting someone.
As someone who has been married for 10 years, cheating on my husband has never even crossed my mind.
Lol. No. Some people are simply not wired to cheat. I could not do it, no matter how bad things ever get.
Everyone - it’s not JUST a character flaw, unfortunately. That would make it so much easier. Often times so much more is going on. People in broken relationships don’t look outside for funsies. I wish I didn’t know from personal experience, but I do.
Enthusiast
I mean someone can be a good person and also have cheated, but it’s still a character flaw. It’s betraying someone else that you at one point loved or do currently love. In order to move past your cheating or whatever you other choice you make that hurt others or yourself, you have to be able to admit your part in it. That’s pretty basic. Of course, no one exists in a vacuum, there are always circumstances, but at the end of the day, you control yourself, baring any debilitating mental health issues.
EVERYONE has the propensity to cheat. The cheaters follow through on it.
Rising Star
I wouldn’t cheat but women who cheat are hot
Chief
Hmm well the fatal flaw in this question is that the people answering don’t have to declare if they’re cheaters hahaha