Does everyone have the capacity to cheat, or is this something only cheaters say to justify their actions?

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Everyone has the potential.

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Everyone has the capacity to do anything.
But controlling your emotions and desires is part of being a well rounded and “good” person.

So it is something cheaters say to justify their actions.

And no, I don’t and have not cheated or even thought about it.

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Yeah, good distinction. I am entirely capable of cheating. I *could*. But I would not.

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It’s something cheaters say to justify their actions. And maybe something some people tell themselves when they don’t believe they deserve better.

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Never once cheated on a SO in my life. Either you have a moral code or you don’t. Cheaters don’t and try to normalize their behavior saying everyone does it.

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Agreed

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I don’t think everyone does. Cheating takes work (lying, sneaking around etc). I’d rather just end it then start a new thing.

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I cheated once on my second grade spelling test because I forgot how to spell “because” and I still feel guilt about it to this day😭.. and haven’t cheated since

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There should be a support group for people who still carry the heavy burden of cheating on elementary school spelling tests 😭

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Cheating on a wife or cheating on hours?

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People are only as faithful as their options.

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Idk getting married at 25 and not having sex with anyone else till you die at say 80 is pretty extreme.

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Lol don't get married at 25? Get separated/divorced before 80?

I actually always love hearing about couples who married- divorced- remarried. I respect the decision to take breaks

It’s a choice

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I don't have the capacity to cheat. Not because I'm too good of a person, I just don't stay with people when I lose interest. Really happy being single

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I don’t have the capacity to cheat. That’s largely a would not, but that would not is SO firm that it represents an incapacity to do so. I just could never do that to someone.

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Same. I love my husband so much that no one else is even attractive to me any more.

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Cheated once, I’m F. It was disappointing and made me feel like crap.

Definitely capable but I try to remember that feeling if I’m tempted and choose not to and to do the work instead.

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"Cheaters live longer."

-anyone who has ever played paintball competitively-

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Everyone has the capacity to cheat… just like everyone has the capacity to murder or to steal. What separates us is our actions. I could never imagine cheating on anyone - even if I fell out of love with someone, I couldn’t imagine wanting to willfully hurt that person, any more than I could imagine physically hurting someone.

As someone who has been married for 10 years, cheating on my husband has never even crossed my mind.

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Lol. No. Some people are simply not wired to cheat. I could not do it, no matter how bad things ever get.

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Everyone - it’s not JUST a character flaw, unfortunately. That would make it so much easier. Often times so much more is going on. People in broken relationships don’t look outside for funsies. I wish I didn’t know from personal experience, but I do.

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I mean someone can be a good person and also have cheated, but it’s still a character flaw. It’s betraying someone else that you at one point loved or do currently love. In order to move past your cheating or whatever you other choice you make that hurt others or yourself, you have to be able to admit your part in it. That’s pretty basic. Of course, no one exists in a vacuum, there are always circumstances, but at the end of the day, you control yourself, baring any debilitating mental health issues.

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EVERYONE has the propensity to cheat. The cheaters follow through on it.

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I wouldn’t cheat but women who cheat are hot

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Hmm well the fatal flaw in this question is that the people answering don’t have to declare if they’re cheaters hahaha

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