Does everyone in Big Law feel like constantly chasing the "next step" hoping that accomplishing it will (and it does not) create a sense of fulfillment or change things up, whether in professional sense or generally in life?

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100%. I couldn’t have said it better myself.

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When I started out I assumed that senior/partner levels were contented with their life I guess even that is not correct and makes me wtf we are chasing

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I think most Biglaw folks need to deliberately carve out some time for introspection on life values & goals. When your vision is clear your decisions are much easier. I know this will sound biased, since I’m a FA, but I think another key to gaining more control in your life is to better control your finances. Too few Biglaw associates leverage their astronomical income to afford themselves freedom & options. Instead, they buy more stuff that keeps them reliant on their Biglaw income. Plus, having savings gives the confidence necessary to firmly set boundaries and have some semblance of WLB. Just my rambling thoughts…sorry you’re feeling this way, friend.

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Yes, 100%! In the last year I have become very erratic in my decision making in my personal life. I get obsessed with figuring out one new career then switch to another, then decide we need to buy a house, then decide it actually needs to be a multi family so we can invest, then the next day I want to move to Hawaii and be a tour guide. And then I start all over and think maybe I can stick with this job for the money. In reality, I am very unhappy with this career and just latch onto changing anything else in my life to make myself happy. But (for me) it’s the job that’s the problem! 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I am on a similar train of thought atm. Im civil law qualified living at my home country (which I dont quite like) trying to get qualified in UK so I can move to either UK or some commonwealth jurisdiction... I will probably work at similarly miserable job if I do that and have no idea if it will make me slightly happier. Still investing a lot of effort and money studying for SQE...

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Definitely, but trying to take steps now to break the cycle (better late then never) takes effort to remind the part of my brain constantly chasing the next ring that I don't want to stick around and be a star senior associate or make partner - but at the end of the day I have to accept that this job/work is never going to be the thing that makes me happy so I should at least try to not have it be the thing that makes me miserable.

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