Don't want to do any work. Don't want to quit. Don't want to get fired. How do I square this circle? 🤔🤔🤔

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Do just enough work to keep from getting fired. Find that sweet spot of mediocrity and ride it.

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Peer pressure outside of work? I’m very deliberately not friends with people who value this line of work above integrity, relationships, etc. I’m friends with very few consultants/corporate types and the friends that are consultants are very transparent about hating corporate America and only doing it for the cash.

I make 6 figures, and it happened pretty young. I can technically support a family on my own if I want, everything else is extravagance and hoarding IMO. And while I will obviously go on to make more because of inertia, I can do that without hustling to double or triple my income because that’s simply not important to me. The year I did about 20% of my capacity at work is also the year I got my highest raise. It’s about being well connected and strategic about navigating to well-invested groups, not hustling. People see a hustler and they know they can take advantage of that energy. My respect goes to people with iron solid boundaries, willingness to limit crazy scope, and a fascinating and varied life outside of work.

If I don’t respect the values of society at large (I don’t), then I’m certainly not losing sleep about what ‘they’ see as a shortcoming. And the people I want in my life on a peer level understand that and agree wholeheartedly. I would hate for my relational value to be my money or my corporate job. I want it to be my compassion, my loyalty, my dedication to community, my sociopolitical integrity- none of these is aided or proven by the corporate ladder.

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Take a vacation! You’re probably burnt out

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Ok so I've read or heard about layoffs recently from all big four except KPMG (obviously with the worst being at Deloitte and PwC and then some at EY in specific teams or sectors). Continued below:

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How is the morale in your groups especially with constant layoff news in the market?

Anyone here ever worked under a senior or supervisor that made them feel like they can’t do the job right or always making mistakes ? And might get fired ?

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Not sure if this is the right step but I’m a little desperate since I was laid off about a month ago and now finally landed a PM interview. As part of the process, i have to complete a take home assessment, which I have completed. Will it be possible for someone here to review my assessment and give feedbacks before I present it to the hiring manager so that I get all corners covered? It would be a HUGE help. Thank you!

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I have joined CGI 5 months back and my project is going to end on 31st. So what will happen after that? As there are layoffs going on in the market will it affect? I am from mainframes technology and have only 2yrs of exp. Can anyone explain pls? CGI

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Spring '19: Agency suddenly "asks me to leave." Covid layoff? Covid not a thing yet. They just didn't want *ME*.

Spring '19-Summer '20: Battle 10-bajillion other freelancers for scraps of work, riddled w/ fear/shame/doubt that career's over & can't support my family. LOSER DAD!

Summer '20: Get freelance gig, in-house, big brand, nice ppl, producing tons...wait, they actually need/want ME?

Summer '21: Still permalance. Happiest yr of life creatively AND personally

So?: Don't give up.

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S&P Global Is it wise to join S&P Global during recession time? Can we consider this company as recession proof. Any history on layoffs in the past ..

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6 months pregnant and just laid off. And 40% of my severance was just taken in taxes .. I just spoke with paid family leave and I no longer qualify even though I had been paying into the program (thanks NY).. I already applied for unemployment but doctors are telling me I’ve got 10-14 weeks left in this pregnancy.. so stressed having twins and being unemployed, no maternity leave, no paychecks coming in, and I’ve been applying but not a single interview.. just ugh. 😭

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Wondering how Accenture is doing with layoffs? Is it a viable company to consider?

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Would you recommend I take a project mgmt role at Meta under a 9 month contract for 60/hr or stay at a role that has potential with nearly no possibility of getting laid off? My fear is that the economy gets worse and I’m stuck after the 9 months.

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I was laid off today due to “financials”. Are there any gigs out there for ad sales or any guidance on what companies that are hiring mid level experience? I cannot start at an entry level salary in this day and age. Tia ✌🏻

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Need an advice. Started my career in 2018 working with PwC which was contractual job. Then got into Accenture that too was a contractual and lost that job due to COVID layoffs. Then got an opportunity in British telecom. Worked there for 18 months after that switched to Genpact. Here's my history.
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Laid off with 1 YOE. Do I include college Awards / Extracurriculars (have just one line to list each right now) ? How about SAT scores?

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गम है......
तेरे चले जाने का,
तुमको ना पाने का,
अकेला हो जाने का,

अफसोस है......
गम से ना उभर पाने का,
इस गम अपने अंदर दबाने का,
वक्त रहते सच ना देख पाने का,

पर सकून है.....
तेरे खुश हो जाने का,
धन दौलत का ख्वाब पाने का,
मेरी तरह गमों में ना बह जाने का,

उम्मीद है........
अब travel वाले अरमानों का गला नहीं घोटते होगे,
Pretty dress को लेने से पहले प्राइस price tag नहीं देखते होगे,
Latest iPhone सबको दिखा के खूब फेंकते होगे,
Luxary staycations पे अच्छी धूप सेकते होगे,

आशा करता हूं......
(Ctd..)

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I have been going on interviews and noticed 2 department heads already assume I was laid off or fired due to a 4 months gap. I explained I left my last role due to short term health issues that have been resolved. Not even sure how to respond when they assume. Any advise? Thanks!

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One of my Friend got an opportunity there so need some guidance. Currently working at Genpact.

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