Early 30’s(M). Successful career, comfortable income owns a home. never been in a relationship. I am shy of talking to girls. Friends suggested to get on dating apps go on dates etc., to overcome shyness. No Match for last 6 months. My friends say that I look great in person than in photos. Not sure where the problem is but Its burning inside tbh.

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Dating apps are a second job and require quite a bit of work. I’ve had friends curate mine since I’m not great about writing about myself so maybe try that. Other option is a matchmaking service, there are some very reputable ones around if you’re willing to pay a premium.

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Lol not gonna lie but race matters in this sexual selection game

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I am in the worst category, lol, East Asian Male

I can review your profile if you want an honest opinion about it. Most friends aren’t going to tell you that you’re unattractive or shooting for people out of your league on the apps.

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Your story resonates with me , I am the same way and have not dated much. I find it too taxing and fake , I hope to bump into the right person in life. 40 F 5’3”

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Have you considered making your profile which tells a bit about you?

I usually swipe left on any profile with zero information. I am sure just pictures works for some but not for me.

Unless you are in the middle of nowhere where no one is around for 200miles.

Have you thought about working with a professional matchmaker or some other avenue to meet women that might be better for you than an app?

Sure how can I send my profile

I second that if you want another opinion

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6ft

Where’s your location?

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