Every interaction I have with my partner has become super passive aggressive. It ruins my day and I think she gets off on it. How do tell her I need her attitude to change or that we need to interact.

Been only 3 days but I miss my BF 😢😭 why am I so needy 😂

Hey everyone! This bowl is geared towards all those open-mind professionals who love to cut loose when they’re not focusing on their careers. Any fun stories involving colleagues?

There's a senior asociate who everybody loves (he's like the class clown/cool guy/cracking jokes) like everyone adores him. He scheduled a meeting with me tomorrow to go over a project because he was my engagement manager but I have the WEIRDEST FEELING ABOUT HIM. I have like a bad feeling about him like i don't trust him and I don't know why...anyone else feel this way about someone a work? Is this intuition?

How should I react to a super disrespectful manager? She had a meeting today and google meet stopped working. Instead of thinking: oh a technical problem occurred she started blaming me saying that I should have created a corrected link. When I told her that was quite impossible her answer was: I forgot you are miss I am never wrong Linksare autogenerated by google meet, if I was able to “create” links and codes I would not have been her assistant but already in the valley making tons of money.

Would you be upset if your SO showed up at your house without an invitation but knew you were going to be in the neighborhood?Even if you weren't expecting them, would you leave them outside knowing they were there?

When do you think associates are usually let go in small practice groups that are currently being overwhelmed with work? Is it when it starts to slows down or when they already have a candidate to replace you? Just trying to figure out how long I have after annoying a partner 😂.

Parents coming in for a cruise for anniversary. Where should I take them to dinner?

Recent immigrants: How common is it to live at home until or prior to marriage? I’m weirded out that my guy lives with his parents, still but my bestie says it’s not uncommon for Asian families.

I gave my notice and I'm finishing end of next week
I'm not expecting a red carpet roll out, but it would be nice if the guys in my team at least pretended to care that I'm leaving

How was your Thanksgiving? Anyone else stuck avoiding all of the relationship questions?

Does anyone else’s spouse give them a hard time about wanting to work from home or taking a half day? My spouse keeps telling me that “it’s a work day so why wouldn’t you work?” or “you need to make money.” For some background, I have a light workload for tomorrow, a busy next week, and I’m on track with my billables.

Need some gay friends in Chicago, anyone down to hang sometime

How do you feel about tech products that are heavily marketed to men? At this point I think the only gender-based marketing that would be appropriate would be for grooming products.

To all mothers and currently pregnant women. I’m hoping to get a nice gift for someone on my team who’s pregnant. What are some practical options that she’d appreciate? Planning to spend $400.

What is the funniest and/or most awkward Zoom moment you’ve had at work?

I worked at LinkedIn and one of the senior leaders was sharing screen during a meeting. The conversation shifted but the leader didn’t stop sharing screen. This person navigated to Yahoo news and clicked on an article filled with women in bikinis. This individual spent a solid 2-3 mins on the article scrolling and stopping to look at each woman. Needless to say this leader was very distracted by other things on our call.

There’s a corporate partner that was a big-time lateral hire. He is always out of the loop on the deals and hands off on everything BUT any time there is a client call, he tries to provide input that is very off base (i.e., stating incorrect facts, creating inapplicable hypotheticals, or being an alarmist on items were previous addressed). It makes me cringe every time because the partner from a different corporate group has to cover his gaffes on the call. Has anyone run into this situation?

One of my coworkers has withheld information that's important to my research because of a personal conflict we had. Should I speak to management or is it his right?

I work in a firm of about 20 lawyers. In some depts staff are fantastic. In others, they are lazy, show zero initiative, don’t follow instructions, etc, so I waste my time doing admin tasks. Contd

Attractive, 6 foot 2 muscular male available for Miami corporate office holiday parties.
I will be your arm candy, dressed to impress and shower you with attention and compliments in front of your coworkers to make those spiteful office Karens you hate feel envious of you for the low rate of $245/ hour.
Free: I will engage in meaningless, polite office small talk with your coworkers I will never see again. DMs are open.

My wife is taking forever to get ready for an event despite us agreeing that we would leave 30 minutes ago. Is punctuality dead?

1/4 I’m a Technical Project Manager delivered Data Centers in Asia Pacific. I solved network bandwidth crunches in corporates and production environments without compromising security. Furthermore, I’m looking into SRE related roles, which will lead me to Enterprise Architect in the next few years.

I’m really excited by what I’ve learned so far in my 10+ years #career journey – namely, that the scene is vibrant and growing.

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Age, gender, tech stack, yoe, ctc, company name

Lawcus v. Clio? Which do you prefer?

What made you go into the hotel industry? For me, I found people who had the same interests I did and who cared above everything else to create a great experience for

Is anyone willing to give a referral to Strategy& for an Exp. Associate position? Would love to connect, thanks!

Hi, I am immediate joiner in java, spring boot, microservicws and aws. Last company: concentrix. Previously worked at Citicorp, Fiserv, TCS and Accenture
Exp: 6 yrs. Looking for only remote opportunity. No offers as if now. LWD : 9/11/2022.

Hi folks,

I'm looking for a job switch, having an experience of 6 years in Python Automation using Robot Framework for API and GUI automation. I'm also experienced in Creating and maintaining Jenkins Pipelines for test automation script execution.

Also, please like, need to unlock the dm feature.

Hi fishes!!
Can anyone refer me for QA role having 1+ years of exp. In manual and automation testing.
Thanks in adv.

Anyone using Fountas and pinnell reading curriculum?

FIS Global vs Shell. CTC and role is exactly same. I have 5 years of experience as Java Developer.

Hi fishes,
Looking for a job change in sales industry, currently working with byjus and having to much toxic environment these days due to layoffs . Kindly recommend .

I honestly feel like the Director on my engagement is running this Job like the Fyer Festival..😐#whateverItTakes

Why do you stay at your job? Why shouldn’t I quit tomorrow morning?

Who has it harder managers trying to train new employees in a remote environment or employees starting in a new remote environment?

What are your favorite date-night restaurants?

I love to cook. I am trying to find a happy medium between one off beginner cooking classes and culinary school. The perfect scenario would be a multi week class that goes over advanced cooking techniques. Like stuff you may learn in culinary school but for people who just want to learn as a hobby. Any ideas?

I get really anxious when I don’t have much to do at work, I start worrying I’m going to get in trouble for being under utilized.. does anyone else ever experience this?

What made you feel life was “worth it” again?

Day 1 on Vyvanse. Anyone been on it?

Sunday Scaries are already in full swing and the sun hasn't even set yet 😓

Job technically allows for WFH - take about one a month because of debillitating anxiety and depression flare ups. I actually work too - I just can’t be around people.

I enjoy what I do but It’s ultimately not good for my anxiety. Making good work at a competitive agency seems to come at the cost of my mental health.

Any success stories of L-Theanine supplements? After a particularly rough anxiety attack last night, I’ve decided to try some remedies (without resorting to Ativan).

I’ve gotten to the final stage in interview process at 5 places now to be told no. First and second interviews at a bunch of other places too. Starting to really feel drained. So much work for nothing

Seeking benefit clarification - US Health Indursnce says “Employee cover starts frm $17.65 PCM w/ $400 per month contribution by employer”. What does this mean? Worried about mental health costs/srvcs

Any tips on managing anxiety? It’s kind of snowballed since becoming a parent and I need to get a handle on it

Had to pull an all nighter and am convinced I will not make it through this day. Prayers are greatly appreciated.

Would it be weird to send my ex a goodbye letter in the mail? He leaves for a military deployment soon for almost 1 year, and I generally care / miss him.

Fake smiles. Fake smiles. Fake smiles.

I've struggled with taking meds. I never understood the concept of "take your meds even if you feel good."

Today, I'm 28 days consistent taking my meds and I feel so. damn. great.

Keep going friends

I keep binge eating at night. How can I stop this?

Can anyone recommend a therapist who uses a secular Buddhist, contemplative psychology or jungian psychology framework? I want to start seeing one but it’s hard to know where to go.

Anyone who's been diagnosed with ADHD fairly late (at least in 20s)? I'd love to know your experience. Like did medication work well for you, do you take it every day, or just on work days? Did it make you perform better at work? What did it help you understand about the way you have functioned/worked your whole life? Etc. Thank you!

has anyone been placed on a PIP after signing an ADA? i’m only 2 weeks into my accommodation...

I feel like I’m coming unraveled. I don’t respect my leaders, I feel like I want to cry (or do cry) once a day at work. No matter how much sleep I get, I’m still exhausted, I’m easily frustrated...

I want to take a mental health day but feel bad using a sick day for it