Every time I fight with my parent, they bring up the fact that they spent all their money on me and my education. I am grateful that I had parents to support me. But, to always bring it up and to try to guilt me does not sound healthy to me. I am beginning to question my parent’s behavior. Is this toxic? Do other people’s parents also always bring up how much they spent all their life earnings on their kids and how we would be nothing without out them ?

30 year old male daddy hunter. Slide into my DMs if you’ll be my father figure until the end of time.

can indian company like hcl or tcs renew work permit canada of a female employee who is pregnant?

I lived in tampa in my early 20s and am now in my late 30s and looking to move back. One of the reason I left is because I felt I had too much energy for the city for a single young professional, but now husband is from there and we have a kid but we are both social people. Do you guys find it easy to meet interesting people and has the city gotten any more fun?

Debating when to have the first baby… would you say having a baby is totally worth it ? Worth all the struggles and sacrifices? Or should I wait an extra year just to save more money and enjoy life now without the extra sacrifices… (female 27 & want to have 2 kids)

Don’t judge me, I’m just struggling this year.

Mother’s Day Gift ideas?

Every time I gain few pounds, I get a pregnancy test bc for some reason I can’t believe it’s my poor diet that’s making my belly look the way it looks. Once I see I’m obviously not pregnant, I get a long term burst of motivation to stick to a healthy diet and the gym. This has happened 3 times

If you’re trying to get pregnant, do you start avoiding certain foods/altering your diet/drink even BEFORE you do get pregos? My fear is that as we’re trying, I’ll get pregnant and realize that my diet/drinking wasn’t quite ideal. I read a few articles saying it’s not a big deal, but curious to hear your thoughts. TIA!

Looking for some inspiration for those that were pregnant and lost some weight but had healthy babies. I'm trying to eat but get so full. And gestational diabetes has not been helping. I'm so worried about the babies. Having twins.

Tips for helping kids stay on task during zoom? Our little class (9 kids) has been doing zoom circle times twice a week but I noticed they are really distracted. Also every meeting a kid leave...

Anyone have generator recommendations? Are there any that aren’t obscenely loud? Moved to a northern state with lots of snow and have a baby arriving during winter. Thinking I’d like to get a backup generator to give me peace of mind.

Genuine question…
I have about $3M in net worth (retirement accounts, stock market investments, checking and savings account) Additionally, I have two homes about $1.2M in average market worth. Have been thinking about FIRE but at 2.5% rule I’m looking at about $100K in income annually and about $28K from rental income. Age is 48 going to 49. And one kid yet to start school = $200K college expense. What would you suggest possible options can look like for retirement?

Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame,
With conquering limbs astride from land to land;
Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand
A mighty woman with a torch, whose flame
Is the imprisoned lightning, and her name
Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand
Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command
The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame.

When you've just learned you are pregnant and you don't have your first appointment until 3 weeks from now (and you don't want to tell anyone yet), how do you figure out what you can and cannot do safely (other than searching on Google which yields conflicting results). Just as an example, I practice hot yoga all the time - can I keep going? I think that would be best answered by my doctor but that isn't an option at the moment. Any advice is really helpful!

Hello fellow HR pros! I really need your opinions on HR certifications. I am deciding between PHR and SHRM-cp. I have read just about all there is online comparing the two and can not decide. My heart is telling me PHR, my mother in law (an HRBP) is telling me to go with SHRM, as it’s more widely recognized, more established and a larger network in general. I work for a 350~ company who is growing rapidly through M&A. Passions/interests are compliance, strategic vision, M&A, branding and culture

Currently, I have a big question in my life, my father comes from the air force and my mother made a career all her life in the navy. I have doubts about which of the two forces is the best option to make a career, can anyone help me with the pros and cons?

My brother in law got an opportunity at Dubai, compensation offered 36000 dirham, in India he is earning close to 50 Lacs. He has a wife and a kid(5 yrs old). Is it a wise decision to shift to Dubai. Now he is living in Mumbai.

During interview I was speaking to the hiring manager. Felt interview was going well. He seemed impressed by my answers, excited by my skills, and even gave me a tour of the office. At the end, he asked about my home life. When I spoke of my 3 young kiddos, the manager got a little taken back and replied Oh you have children? I said yes ages 3, 5, and 7. He then proceeded to ask me about daycare arrangements and if I can be reliable. Red flag as his demeanor changed and made me feel unworthy.

Muslim Asians! I am asking my partners family for their blessing on the 9th.
I know this would normally involve a family tea but my family doesn't live here. What can I take to say, I'm here for your daughter and Ive brought things saying I'm appreciative of your culture. I'm UK based

Is it realistic to have a decent WLB if you’re a parent and working in MBB/T2 in Dubai? Is it guaranteed that you’d be travelling Monday-Thursday? Currently, I have a decent WLB in London but money is very attractive in Dubai but don’t want to miss my child growing up if I’m expected to not be home >80% of the time.
Any parents working in Dubai MBB/T2 have an answer?

How late is too late to go to bschool?

Does spotify have QA lead roles ?

Closing on my first home. Advice for anyone with student loans in administrative forbearance per the Cares act: once your offer is accepted have you student loan servicer put your account back in repayment status.

Accounts in forbearance, even administrative forbearance, are calculated at a higher monthly payment by the underwriter.

My fictitious debt to income ratio was too high for them to approve me, and it took seven days for my loan to be officially back in repayment. So just a heads up.

Hi, I have an offer which gives me batter increment in salary I have tried my best to find out about my project and time shift but they are not responding me properly, Now my LWD is very near and I have 2nd thoughts in my mind to stay. I also have couple of offers from big MNC in waiting state. If I stay then again I have to server my 90 days notice period and may be ask to sign a bond as well.
Please suggest me how to deal with such situation. So that I won't regret in future. 🙏

Traveling to Miami for week before memorial week. What are some suggestions you have?

Currently a MC at Accenture UK. 4 YoE including BA work, data analysis, change management, process improvement, tech implementations. Looking for a new role. Either Sr Consultant or exit into industry. Please do DM if you know of anything that may be of interest :)

Worst HR at CapG. Each time I call them to inquire about the offer status, HR DECREASE THE PACKAGE BY 2 Lacs saying we are not getting approval. I have stopped calling now. This is ridiculous

I’ve been sober a year now, and someone recently reached out to me about not drinking. When I suggested AA, he said ‘washed out people with nothing to lose’ wouldn’t comfort him. And that it was a ‘scared straight’ approach. I know his is a super harsh and ignorant opinion, but I just want to say if you hold it, it’s so far from the truth. Regardless of age, I’ve met some of the coolest unique people I’ve ever come across in aa, and I just felt sad people might hold that opinion of it in 2021

Do we have any tech companies in Atlanta paying 120K plus for data scientist roles with 4-5 YOE?

How much I can expect as an Appian developer in PWC SDC Bangalore?
Current CTC - 15 lpa+2 lpa bonus
YOE - 5.5

Anyone subletting an apartment soon? Looking for something for my dad while he visits me in Denver

My LWD in TCS was Aug 19th. Date of exit in epfo portal is not updated yet. Should I update the date of exit in epfo portal or TCS will do it?

Is Keto a good option if your goal is increased strength and endurance (obviously in conjunction with the right exercise plan), or is it primary for people looking to lose weight?

Thoughts needed - do you have a separate trading crypto account and one to keep for long term investments for crypto ?

Hi Guys,

Do EY give joining bonus?