Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

Hi all, How is work culture here in Credit suisse?

Currently accepted an offer and just started BGC and waiting for immigration transfer to kick off.

I want to put in my 2 weeks, bad move? I’m in a difficult spot currently and need to leave

How would you approach your manager if you get a job offer with a higher pay elsewhere for a somewhat similar role?

Is hiring slowing down in Chicago?

Are there any (outdoor) cyclists here who would be interested in forming/joining a weekly or biweekly ride? Nothing super intense. Maybe ending in coffee (or other bevs)? Could be fun to connect with other ad peeps before we all retreat indoors for 5 months. This may already exist I’m new(ish) here.

Anyone willing to offer a referral to Deloitte human capital consulting? Heard there are ongoing layoffs, but there is a really interesting new job posting which fits my background. Thanks!

Hi all. I am currently interviewing for the Product Development and Procurement Fellow Position at McKinsey & Company. Would someone with experience at this position be willing to hop on a quick call/make a referral. Let me know! Thanks all.

Probably a silly question - finally in a position where I can buy my first Rolex. Anyone know how difficult it is to get a jubilee/fluted blue dial 36mm DJ at an AD?

Hi Team

I have an offer from Barclay's and the Fiserv. Having 9 years of exp.both are offering the same package , so considering long term association which one is better to join?

People are saying EY GDS is a "pressure chamber" should i bother to join? Or look somewhere else!?

I’d like to work for the FBI either as a Special Agent or Professional Staff as a Forensic Accountant. I am currently a Senior Forensic Accountant at a public accounting firm but we mainly handle commercial damage calculations, business valuations, and SOME investigations that one might think of as “was there fraud? We’re not sure, please Mr. Forensic Accountant can you take a look at our QBs?”
Question: is this experience preferable to the FBI? Or do they prefer the AML professionals? CPA + CFE

I see a lot of job openings at Deloitte for their US Fraud Specialist Team. Is anyone familiar with this group? How is it different than their regular forensics teams?

Need suggestions to pick one for 6.5+ Yoe in Mainframe Dev for long run in industry ( WLB , Job security, Opportunities )
CTS ( Sr associate Role ) - No info on Client/Account
Coforge ( Technical Analyst Role) - Probably HSBC Client
Offered CTC is more in Coforge ( +2 Fixed ).

#DOJ is on 29th August..

Fun ideas for a activity tonight for a group of ~6 guys in Vegas? Have a good restaurant picked out, but want to do more than just casino hop after.

Anyone know of any buildings that offer short term or month to month leases?

At what point it’s too late to move from MBB to PE? Can you still move as a Manager (Project Leader)? Is it possible to break into a deal team? Will you need to take a downgrade in that case (e.g. start as an Associate)?

Posting here on a family member's behalf:
Looking for urgent job/opportunities.
Education: Diploma in Mechanical engineering fresher from Govt Polytechnic
Open for IT related roles as well. Willing to migrate into IT sector.
Have good knowledge of - JavaScript, HTML, CSS, ReactJS.
Have experience working with - MacOS, Linux (Ubuntu), Windows 7 and 10.

Soft skills: Good in Managing stress situations and deliver on time, Soft spoken and good communication skills, Problem solving attitude.

Bf said on video he made his decision to breakup, and asked to meet on Sunday to talk in person. If he’s already decided, what’s the point of meeting up and break up one more time? (He said we have very different values. He thinks I look for stability, quality time, family, have a place, someone to come home to when he wants to travel and build businesses. He feels like the relationship is not letting him do what he wants to do at max capacity because of resistance he feels from me)

When do you and your SO start telling each other your income?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We are not married or living together.

He knows how much I make because I told him after my promotion. He is the entrepreneur type with a passive income gig.

His business has been very slow since covid but he just seem to be chillin at home. He never tells me if he is doing financially okay so when I asked. He got offended and asked me to drop the topic because he is doing okay.

My boyfriend has given soo many red flags over the past year but we’ve been trying to make it work. Heated arguments consistently every other week. We disagree on a lot of “expectations” in a relationship. He can be controlling and quick to get angry, and I just can’t take this emotionally anymore (esp when he blames me for making him angry). Tips on getting through the break up convo when you know it’s the right thing to do but you love them & it hurts like hell to end things?

Relationship is going pretty well apart from my partner being pretty unhealthy… I like to eat clean in general but she doesn’t like veggies and I’m a little fearful for our future family if she’s just encouraging them to “eat what you feel like” is there anyway to help change this behaviour? Any suggestions? It’s not like I never go eat fast food or what not, just that our frequency of consuming desserts has increased exponentially after we started dating and she doesn’t exercise either

I've just been broken up with by a girl I love - any thoughts on trying to hold on to her?

I've been seeing a girl for about 6 months. She's said she's into me, and that I treat her well, and took a big step of introducing me to people that really matter to her 3 weeks ago.

Her reason is stress - She's doing a masters and has just been evicted so can't afford to stay in the same city. When her masters ends in December she may have to move back to the US, as she might not get a job here.

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

What usually warrants a married couple to start living separately and coparent their child? No job or financial constraints just that the wife moved from the house with their child to an apartment nearby.

Anyone married but still have feelings about your ex? Like you love your SO but still have lingering feelings?

If you have an avoidant attachment style, how did you end up getting into a relationship (that lasted)?

Looking for advice on personal space in a relationship. Been in thus relationship for 6 months. I date here and there but have not been in a serious relationship in a long time. Been working late M-F since COVID started. I usually call my gf after work or before I go to sleep and we talk for an hr or so each night. And on Fridays I go to her place right after work and stay the weekend. I’m finding a lack of my own time because it’s either work or her throughout the week and weekends...

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

33 and still don’t think I want kids. Does that every change?

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here

(38F). My boyfriend (39M) after 2 years together (long distance but travel to one another and spend time), suddenly told me he wants to try to be a musician again. He did this in his 20s , failed and started his corporate career at 26. He’s a Senior Manager in Fl but i personally feel is underpaid. He was supposed to move in to my place in September and start living together. I initially told him I would support his music on the side while he pursues his corporate career full time. *Cntd below*

So something crazy happened to me last week. I was at the airport, and as usual on call after call. The check in line was going ridiculously slowly and at some point turned threw my hands up in frustration while looking around to find another place to check in. In doing so, I catch the eye of the behind me. He smiles and says something. I just sort of nod and carry on with my call. After that, he keeps trying to talk to me, eventually I got to the check, say bye and leave. At security… tbc

Someone find a pic and description for this bowl.

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

My old side piece and I have been over for a minute now. It was fun until we fell for each other. We are both 'happy'in our current relationships. We took a break from talking, it seemed like we were both still sensitive about the past and still have love for each other. Recently, he reached out and voiced that he wants to talk more. He video chat me, and now texts frequently. But he only texts when he's at work or in his car, when his girlfriend isn't around. Does this mean anything?

F here. I’ve had trouble in relationships because idk how to fight healthily. I’ve been going to therapy for it but I’m struggling atm because my boyfriend who I love so much, I’ve brought to his breaking point with my anxiety fueled approach. I don’t blame him. A lot of this stems from watching my parents & their toxic fights. I want to change not only for myself but for him, because I believe he is worth changing for. But has anyone ever gone through this & made it out better?