EVERYONE (Ari Gold Voice). My friend just got canned from SEO hell after 4 years and isn’t on ‘the bowl’. Can everybody leave some kind words here I can show him so he knows that his future wife and kids (that are a long ways away) are very happy for him.

Thank you to all and to all a good night!

I hope he’s in as much pain as I am. The way he ended it was so cold and selfish and unlike how he was any other time with me. It was like a personality switch. I’ve never been so wrong about someone. I’m not sure how to process or recover from that part of it.

Do you tell your boss you’re going through a breakup? I’m phoning it in and obviously going to be camera off for awhile.

Anyone with anxious attachment tendencies? Going through a breakup and I keep thinking about how I pushed him away and then am down on myself, replaying memories in my mind. At the end of the day, I think we were a bad match from the beginning and misaligned, but so hard not to beat myself over my anxious attachment during my relationship

New attorney here! Currently, I’m a child advocacy lawyer, but I want to get into family law (divorce, custody, etc.). I’m constantly advised to steer clear of family law; but is it really THAT bad??

Dealing with the passing away of my parent right now. Was going to start a new role in a few weeks. Anyone gone through the grieving process? I find it hard to even imagine if my work life can ever be normal again without my parent whom i used to talk to almost daily.

Have been thinking of Post Malone’s “Circles” recently. Have any of y’all stayed in a relationship longer than you should have because you we’re having sex and feeing closer because of that?

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

What should i do if my parents fight EVERY day, EVERY moment of their lives. I feel bad by intervening but sometimes my mom needs help. Once its over, i feel terrible and curse myself for being born. My gf is probably talking to some other guy who looks good and probably has a better social status than me. I am usually scared and negative about things. What should i do

I've been with my gf for almost 6 months now. For context she's still in grad school (we have a 2 year age gap) and I'm struggling to feel physically attracted to her. I have a good job, decent amounts of stress, I like to work out, spend time with friends, and am very outgoing. She's super sweet, kind, sensitive, and brilliant. I find her attractive but I find the fact that she's always up in my business and available to me unattractive. She also just got an amazing job in another state (1/2)

23M here. Anybody have any tips or book recommendations on not feeling haunted by your past and anxiety about the future and consistently stay in a “FLOW STATE”.I’m currently reading the Power of Now. I have a habit of burning bridges because I feel that I’m perpetually trying to fit in and act “cool”. I feel that I’ve always been somewhat unconfident but every year it seems to be more and more difficult to manage and taxing emotionally. I go to the gym 4 times a week, try to eat clean, socializ

My bf took a guys trip to Caribbean to celebrate a good friend of 20+ year’s milestone bday. The friend’s bday is the day before mine. Normally bf and I trip for my bday over the holiday weekend. Bf will be back for my actual bday, and we’re taking a domestic trip next weekend. That said, I still feel a little miffed that we’re not spending this weekend together like normal. Are my feelings unreasonable?

I have a student who is a strong writer and wants to be a blogger. How can I support her in this?

I ate one biscuit out of a big packet that belonged to my roommate and he said things like “it’s so tough to get these biscuits” etc. The thing is that I would have never said that to him. I’ve told him that as long as it’s in the kitchen, don’t ask me before eating. He also constantly keeps asking me to switch off the kitchen and bedroom lights. Is my being annoying justified?

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

As I get older, I’ve come to the realization that marrying a non-Muslim girl is just not for me. Anyone else feel the same way?

How do you incorporate warm up/bell ringer problems so that kids actually complete the problems and not just use that time to socialize?

I have a para/assistant teacher that just wants to argue over everything. “You’re the teacher, why do I have to assess the children during break out rooms?” We have 8 kids, and I am only asking her to do 3! The other para is doing 3 and I and doing 2 with IEPs!!! How am I supposed to handle this in a professional manner virtually? Plus she is frustrated b/c o can’t explain everything. I keep telling her it’s all new to me too. Grace is not a word in her vocab. And I am feeling graceless.

Why do former flames message you after years of no contact? I had someone contact me after 15 years. I also had a man who’s still in a relationship with a person after 8 years (he cheated on her with me without me knowing they were a thing). He still keeps messaging me with the “I hope we meet again soon,” but I give no response or really short/bland responses. FYI nothing really happened we just had a strong emotional connection & I think he’s still with the same partner 🙄 genuinely curious

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

I’m noticing I have really low motivation lately as far as work is concerned. Are there any other mothers to be struggling with this right now? I’m currently 16 weeks

Anyone selling 150k United points? What’s your price?

Moving to Philly next year, making ~90k before tax. Would like to hear some opinions on how much I should spend on rent. (For context I do not have student loans and would also like to lease a car)

Looking at this W4 to adjust my withholding DOWN since my wife and I always get more back on our tax return than we want and would rather have the money now. I only see sections that will INCREASE my withholding? What am I missing? Is adjusting withholding down not an option? FYI I don’t work in this area so let’s keep the insults to a minimum lol.

Which style home do you prefer and why?

Visiting Dallas this weekend, will be staying in downtown but will have a car. Can anyone recommend some restaurants? Thanks!

How much time it takes for BGV to complete in Optum? Mine is in progress from 45 days. Is it normal?

What is the avg salary of consultants at ZS. Received an offer for 20 fixed 3 variable 3 joining bonus.
YoE 5 with MBA from tier 1 B school.
TIA

I got an offer to work at Morgan Stanley and I start in 2 weeks. Very happy that it’s my first actual job out of college but it is in wealth management. Is a transition possible to investment banking within the company in a few years? Or is it even necessary? My goal is to eventually work in private equity. Any advice is helpful 🙏🙏

Are there ANY Am Law 20 firms (even 50 and up), where billing 200 monthly is acceptable? Like any? Do tell.

Note: Some am law firms say no billable hour requirement, but that’s only because you bill 3x over.

Just started researching to buy a first house. Leaning towards SFH with backyard since we have kids. Trying to get a sense for what should we budget for backyard maintenance on a monthly basis?

Hi,

Currently working in HCL serving Notice Period. Got offer in wipro of 18.8LPA. If I'm asking 27LPA CTC during Exit interview or in negotiation, whether HCL provide the pay or not? Someone please share your opinion on this one?

Hi Folks

Please help me on this?
I have few offers please guide me which one to choose.

1. Cognizant- 14 lpa
2. HCL - 14LPA
3. Trelleborg- 17 lpa
4. KPMG- 16 LPA

Biglaw market paying firm. We have an opening for a mid-senior level RE or structured finance associate for our LA office. DM if you’re looking to lateral

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

Anyone can share FSSBU senior consultant comp for capgemini? TIA

Hey everyone, I'm looking at a new knife as an Xmas gift to myself, looking to spend $200+ on a really great quality knife. My last one was a Global 10" chef's knife (G16) I gifted away, but now looking at a Global Sai 9 3/4" (Sai06), anyone got thoughts / opinions?

We have clients who are ‘retained’, which really means they just pay for a bundle of hours they can draw down over time. Any tips for how to ensure they don’t ask for 5 projects at once and absolutely kill people if they are allocated also on other business?

I'm currently working as a client relations manager, previously was a media planner mostly offline with a sprinkling of streaming audio and display banners and OTT TV. I'd like to shift into a marketing role in the industry I'm now in. Any recommendations on a digital course provider to consider online?

Can procurement just go away. Literally spend more time answering their questions than working with marketing clients. FML.

As I move up in account management, what are the things I should be negotiating for? Commission on growth of my assigned biz? Profit sharing? Bonus? What’s industry standard for sr account people?

Has anyone worked in a renewal account manager position? Basically supporting the renewal side of the business for account managers. More technical, less customer facing. How would you prepare for this interview?

Looking for Account Managers that are marketing savvy and enjoy taking a strategic role beyond managing clients to work on a global premium hair care brand account. Reach out for more details.

What are the best places to work in advertising in Nashville?

This is my first time ever doing a self-review and my agency’s process doesn’t have a template or any questions to follow (assuming this is normal). I am sure I’ll do fine/ have a positive review, but I want to get the most out of this review so I can help propel my growth forward and prep to hopefully get promoted from AAE to AE. Does anyone have tips on where I can find some guidance for a self-review?

How is Mc Donald’s as a client? Looking at you we are unlimited peeps ..

I'm looking to hire a Project Manager to work at my Creative Agency. We're looking for someone who has experience working with Non-Profits as a lot of our clients are non-profits so we need someone who is at least familiar with the industry to talk the talk since they will be client-facing. Any suggestions on where to post the job? We have tried the big ones like LinkedIn but not having much luck.

Freelance account work - has anyone had success with this? If so, I would be interested to learn the nature of what you found (new biz, maternity leave, etc) and how you marketed yourself. Thanks!

Average Account Exec salary? I’m starting to think that I didn’t negotiate enough when I got hired. I have 2 years of experience.

Ladies, would you take a gift from a guy?
Purse, shoes, electronics

As account management I feel pressure to not have a public opinion, but I do today. How is everyone coping with Rowe being overturned if your company hasn’t declared a position or chosen to remain silent?

🎇What’s your biggest win from 2021?

Drop it below, let’s celebrate 🥳

I have an interview this week for an AAE position. What is the best interview advice to give someone that really wants to land this job and also excel in this role? What ways can I impress?

Any success using traditional sales methodology to grow organic business with a large client? For example email marketing for a more mass approach— to showcase recent work /capabilities (Cont’d...)

Interested in hearing how many AE’s are involved in the creative process vs straight client management? My agency size is small (35 ppl) and I’m pretty involved. Is that normal?

Are you able to negotiate salary if you’re getting promoted? Can I potentially lose the opportunity if I ask for more?