Everytime I get ghosted after multiple dates, I spend the next week working almost 24/7 as if I think “if only I was richer/more successful in my career they’d want me”. I’m sure the partners on my project love it

How do you deal with staff who does not understand English clearly or needs everything to be repeated. Even if they understand the words, I can see they can’t interpret it because they are trying to..

Any recommendations for sagging and creasing skin for very mature skin (75 years)? I suddenly noticed yesterday my mom is looking very old. Particularly in the neck and arms area. And she doesn’t like it. I understand that it is inevitable and no project can do magic, but still, any products that could really help?

How is the citi project in virtusa?

My tech stack: Java, spring boot, microservices, react

Is there any framework used ?

Please suggest

Thanks

I’m junior to two Legal Counsel (I work in-house) who are passive aggressive towards each other. They don’t attend each other’s meetings and leave each other out of email CC’s. It’s pretty clear this is done on purpose as one of them has bitched to me about the other.

What would you do in this situation?

I have many options to consider but two options below are what I’m thinking of right now.

I want to see your thoughts on which one I should pick.

Job A: Project Engineer. 135K/yr base. 10% signing bonus.

Job B: Senior Project Manager. Contract. $60/hr standard. $90/hr overtime.

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Hi Fishies

I work at a service based MNC and resigned recently. I'm getting married within a week and moving with my partner, and won't be able to serve the notice period. My manager says to serve the full notice period or be labelled absconded. I asked the HR whether I will be labelled as absconded if I agree to buyout the shortfall but they're not replying. What to do.

Advice on possibly dating a coworker?

Is there ever a situation where a form 8960 is required even if the client is under the income threshold? Friend/client of mine got a PWC preso saying 8960 is required due to some 965 tax but. Cont..

How do you tackle ignorant managers and favoritism in the team ?

Anyone worked with Berdorf Goodman as their client? How was it working with a retail client?

New to managing someone: she promised to send in slides eod Friday for review over the weekend, so far nothing. Do I email to remind? Offer help? She also sent in something else that we agreed was lower priority.

Any success using traditional sales methodology to grow organic business with a large client? For example email marketing for a more mass approach— to showcase recent work /capabilities (Cont’d...)

Feeling like it's only a matter of time before I have to tell the new marketing dept head that the snazzy jargon just makes him sound like a tryhard and alienates our customer base

Does anyone else have team members across the country who notice your “valley girl” voice/accent?

I didn’t really know it was that noticeable until I started this remote job 😂

How can we switch projects internally in TW? Also what is the timeline you have to be in a project before u can switch?

How do you deal with a senior member of the team that doesn’t value your input? I’d love to be more involved but I feel like I’m not given a chance to

My manager gets mad at me for sending things out without him telling me to, then he also gets mad when I don't send things out because I'm waiting for his go ahead. What the fuck...

How is work culture at Deloitte India (not USI). Are the employees required to go to client office and work?

Hello, looking for supervisor positions in healthcare within NYC, I am looking to start ASAP. I have my Bachelors in Health Services Admin and Economics, 5 years of experience in the industry and I am currently working towards my PMP certification, as well as going for my MBA or MHA, depending on what program I can afford. I am currently located in Queens. Thank you!

Finalised my car sale at Carvana. Had indicated that my car is in a good condition with minor cosmetic defects. Today someone has scratched the back of my car with what looks like a Key scratch. Will the evaluator decrease the price or refuse the sale on inspection? Has anyone had an experience with selling with Carvana? Thanks!

Anyone free tonight for drinks ? 36m here

Roche has opened many roles in hyd. They are establishing their pharma analytics division. All the best guys 😂

Quit and apply full time? I know the climate, but man... am I done.

I'm looking for a good social reporting tool. At the moment I'm using sproutsocial but it's expensive and want a change.

The only catch is, I haven't found any other tool that reports competitors stats, which is great for benchmarking and client retention.

Any recommendations?

Thanks.

Has anyone done a drastic job change in the past year? I just can’t take working in insurance much longer. But, I’m nervous 😅

High billable month: Anxious and stressed AF
Low billable month: Anxious and stressed AF

I’m trying to go back to the basics. How do you guys structure thoughts around identifying the correlation between 2 variables? A basic example: the number of steps I take in a day and the hours of sleep I got that night.

Hi can you advertise here? I teach private piano-flute and violin lessons online

Does anyone have any insights about the layoff rumors at Morgan Stanley?

Hi Fishes,

What should be the ask for 21+ years of experience and a position as a Cloud Architect in GCP.

I see a lot of people making more money when they exit. In my experience, I have yet to find a role that pays more for a similar level of responsibility in a similar location. Current M in T&O at $153k in the Midwest (not Chicago). Offers I’ve seen at the manager level in industry in similar midwestern cities at the manager level are typically between $110-130k with a 15-30% bonus. Any advice on finding an opportunity that will lead to a salary increase, even if it’s only a modest one?

Good accountant recs for tax filing? Relatively simple (w2, worked in 2 states). Just need to make sure I’m doing a few withholdings and state vs state things right. I’m in CA but open to suggestions. Thanks!

Any tips for listing office preferences and weightings? I don’t have any strong attachment to any office so should I just put 33% for each? I’ve heard some offices (London) only consider people who put them first with 100% - are there any other offices like that? Any differences across firms?

What are some lesser known buy great firms in Australia.

E.G. Mainsheet Corporate, Partners in Performance

Anyone know what’s the salary of a Director PwC india ?

People who mail birthday cards with nothing in them... Just stop

Is it now appropriate to start my emails with “due to the upcoming holidays, kindly leave me alone until 2023” or too soon…

Finally leaving the firm for a remote position :) not a super big pay increase but I’ll definitely be happier to not have to commute 😌 Happy Friday!

Has anyone here ever reported a director for retaliation? How did it play out, what are some best ways to go about doing it?

Over the last 3 weeks I’ve been discarded, gaslighted multiple times, sabotaged, given the silent treatment and emotionally abused. Of course since this doesn’t have any visible scars how can I present this?

My SO told me he wanted to take a break and I told him that we should rather break up for good but never heard back from him. During the break, I met couple of guys and things happened. Now my SO wants to be back in my life and I told him what I have been up-to. I gave him the classic “But we were on a break” line and he got more upset. I don’t think our relationship is salvageable at this point. It feels so weird few months ago we were so madly in love and now we are in this situation.

Drive to Survive killed Formula 1 and has now made race day ticket inaccessible to people who actually love the sport

My boomer mother is retired HR exec. Whenever I ask for recommendations on address situations at work she recommends I get over it because I work from home. My new manager has boundary issues and talking it over with my boomer, I mean mother, I was told “who gets to do laundry at lunchtime?” Mmmkay, just because I had to buy the desk I sit at doesn’t mean I don’t work. 🤬 Burn my childhood home down or put her in a home?

Am I in the wrong for staying to myself at work until I’m given stuff to do or should I try to network with my coworkers to learn things?

What are you procrastinating on, pushing off and are scrolling on 🐠bowl instead.

How painful is it to deliver a child? Thanks.

Confession: I need help…

…securing a summer 2023 internship. Any volunteers for a referral for banking, consulting, or anything related to finance? Open to private or public sector. I’m unsure of what I want to do in terms of a career, so if you have the time, I would also be open to chatting about your profession to learn more. Cheers.

How often do you guys talk to your moms? Do you usually call or does she?

Sometimes I pick a post and uplift react to every comment on the post.

Just spreading the love.

Why is anxiety a thing? I'm a female fish who likes to golf. Just got new clubs and want to try them out but currently sitting in the parking lot at the range and can't force myself to go in because it's crowded 😫

Marriages should be for 4 years terms and both parties must agree to renew it. It would end a lot of the nonsense going on.

I wanna get a cat so badly 😩
And a dog next year 🥺