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Is a collaborative divorce the same as mediation? That’s what I did and highly recommend it if you’re able to speak amicably and both genuinely seek resolution.
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I have heard of this. (I am a lawyer, it not a family law attorney). It can be a good option if things are amicable. Do a bit of Googling on it. If it is right for you, it can save $ in attorney’s fees.
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Did you contribute to any of the investments? And how long have you been married? If he’s trying to keep all investments and 401K then tell him to give you the whole house not split. Of course look at the total cost of everything and number of years of marriage and also how much you contributed actively or passively (by taking care of home and family so he can thrive professionally?)
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Know all your assets and his assets and have a good idea of how you want to divide the assets. IE: both keep your own 401k, sell the house and split the proceeds, etc.
Yeah.. husband is saying we have to be respectful during this process .. at the same time he’s like 401k is mine, savings and investing accounts are mine too and we split the houses in half 🙄. Not sure how respectful things will go and how fair the process can be
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