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F 🐠 Would you date a bi sexual man?

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Some of the answers here made me really sad. It’s interesting to see the difference on the conversations when a woman is bi vs when the man is bi. I would date, already date, and if the future gives me other opportunities, yes, totally would date a bi man. I’m mature enough to keep a conversation open with him to understand if I’m being enough of not, even not having “the equipment”. I believe in trust and communication, and that’s for me much more important than gender.

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I admit, part of the reason I say no is being I am still dealing with homophobia. Grew up very religious and haven’t quite shaken all of the fundamentalist bs I learned. But I’m working on it. But also, I’d always be concerned that he’d get bored with me because I can’t give him certain things. And I’m not into open relationships so there’d be no room to go out and get D on the side and come back to me. But I think if I were a gay, I wouldn’t want to date someone who wasn’t also gay.

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Guns or swords? Ba dum tss

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Yup, that sounds hot.

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YES please been looking, gotta match my energy 😏

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D2 given this thread I understand that but it’s not fair. Just know that we’re out here, looking for other bi partners, but we can’t find you if you don’t speak up 💙

Nope and I don’t think that makes me bigoted. People are allowed to have different attractions and not be “____ - phobic.”

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So if a guy likes “butt stuff” with a woman, totally cool and alpha though?

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Yes. As with any partner, particularly when first getting to know each other, serious conversations and actions regarding safer sex would of course take place.

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Am dating one now :)

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Y’all are conflating phobias and general bigotry with simple unexplainable preferences. I’m a straight man and generally prefer brunettes. I don’t have a phobia or an issue with blondes. I’ve dated many because looks aren’t everything. There are beautiful redheads. And I’d have no problem dating a bi woman.

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Comment like all bi men are secretly gay, bi men will cheat on me, and other regressive shit in this thread are definitely steeped in bigotry. It's fine to have preferences but it's also important to introspect and ask why you have such a visceral reaction to the thought.

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Honesty is integral part of every relationship. If the person is honest, then, I would date a bi sexual man.

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I'd be too insecure that I wouldn't be enough. There's 2 times the competition.

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Thank you for your thoughtful reply and perspective! ❤

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100% yes! Have not been presented the opportunity to and am secretly hoping the opportunity presents itself.

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Yes I would.

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As a man, yes I would date a bisexual women, but could understand the reasons/biases/pressures that would cause someone to say they wouldn’t date a bisexual person.

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Nope. Trust is already an insecurity for me, so it’s honestly just me being insecure on why I wouldn’t. I’d make an exception for Harry Styles though 🤣

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Thanks for responding. I understand why you see it this way, but I agree with C. Some people I know, straight most of them, are attracted to pretty much anyone of their preferred gender. One of them literally said this to me; he said if you look hard enough, there's always something attractive about anyone. Other people are very particular about who they are attracted to, and I'm not referring to gender but just attraction. You can be bi but very particular, or straight and very open about who you are attracted to. I'd pay more attention to this than to bi or straight.

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Only if I was bisexual

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You don’t understand why someone might share the attraction you have yourself? Or you don’t understand people who are attracted to you? Or just the combination?

Absolutely

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