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Family is Muslim. We do all the stuff for Christmas except for gifts and drinking. When I was a kid I was miffed at no gifts but now I really wish they'd revisit the no drinking thing.

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All the cousins be in the backyard passing around a flask though... bonding. 😊

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I applaud that we as cultures can all find common ground - Christmas with family makes us want to drink

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Gifts and drinking are the heart of Christmas

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I disagree. My family is Muslim and we don't do either. Not doing gifts young sucked but whatever, I do it with friends now and I've never drank in my life. I usually get more rowdy than my drunk friends when we go out. You don't need to be drunk to bond

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Yes. Do the right thing, you only have one life SC1. Kill your body with alcohol.

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You can always drink dude.. You have got one life.. Make the most use of it.. Good that your cousins are doing the right thing.. Cheers.. 😊

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