Feeling a lot of dread about work every single day. I thought Christmas break would be a great reset but I can’t shake the feeling. I’m so anxious with current events and just life that it feels terrible to just keep working like the world isn’t on fire. :(

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Hi OP. I just want to say I feel the exact way.
I thought winter break would be a good reset but it did the opposite. I dread work even more now. I’ve also had some personal issues arise and with everything going on it’s so weird to be working and be “normal”.
Sending you love and hugs.
Try to do things that help you relax after work. For me it’s taking a walk (most of the time I drag myself to do it but i never regret it), bath, disconnect from the news!!!!!, FaceTime a friend.

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Thank you so much! It feels better to know that others understand and are going through the same thing. Also sending you love and hugs! Hoping you get through the personal issues, it’s tough out here.

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Right there with you. Every day brings the feeling of dread, and the Sunday dread for what awaits me on Monday begins as soon as I wake up in the morning. You’re not alone.

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