Feeling very unloved by my family, my friends, in life in general, my SO. Please comment with something funny or cute 💚❤️

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I do not but i fostered one so i think i know where this is going lol

OP, you deserve love, and everything else! ❤️

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Love you

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Same. ❤️❤️❤️

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Rosy is hoping you're having a great day today

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