Fellow fish based in LA (or anyone else that can help)!!! Urgent question here - my fiancée and I are looking to get a marriage certificate and a civil ceremony done on the same day - can I do this at a registrar? TIA!

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I did this in Santa Barbara county 7 years ago. Signed the paperwork and did the ceremony at the courthouse same day.

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Not in LA but have seen it done in CA. Went to the court, they signed everything and asked for a contact list of people who can do the ceremony and they called around to see if someone could do it same day (someone on the contact list happened to be at the courthouse and they just did it right then and there). If you’re looking for a more formal ceremony, you should definitely call beforehand to set it up. If you just want to get it done, ask for the contact list and make a couple calls, I’m sure someone will be available. Hope this helps. Congratulations!

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Thank you!

Vegas? I think they can issue same day marriage certificates. 3.5 hr drive or 1.5 hr flight?

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Second Santa Barbara! It’s an hour & a half drive and very beautiful. I believe that is a Saturday service. Good luck!

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Why in such a rush to marry RIGHT NOW??

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